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  • stonedhearted
    Junior Member
    • May 2013
    • 8

    Complete loss of libido.

    I'm 20 and have no sex drive, and this bothers me. I WANT to WANT it.
    When I was 15-17 my libido was crazy.
    My thoughts could get me soaking wet.
    Then at about 18 it stopped. I'm never horny, I can't get wet.
    I'm seeing a guy and I am very attracted to him, but when we are intimate, we do a lot of foreplay, I don't get wet at all.
    We need to use lube and I really don't like that. I shouldn't be so dry at 20 that we need lube every single time.

    There is this libido enhancer called femMED Libido, and i was wondering if anyone has any experience with these?
    I'm not sure about the idea of taking pill supplements for libido at my age, but they are made with natural ingredients so I'm willing to give them a try.

    Thanks everyone.
  • mew86
    Junior Member
    • May 2013
    • 2

    I feel you!

    Originally posted by stonedhearted
    I'm 20 and have no sex drive, and this bothers me. I WANT to WANT it.
    When I was 15-17 my libido was crazy.
    My thoughts could get me soaking wet.
    Then at about 18 it stopped. I'm never horny, I can't get wet.
    I'm seeing a guy and I am very attracted to him, but when we are intimate, we do a lot of foreplay, I don't get wet at all.
    We need to use lube and I really don't like that. I shouldn't be so dry at 20 that we need lube every single time.

    There is this libido enhancer called femMED Libido, and i was wondering if anyone has any experience with these?
    I'm not sure about the idea of taking pill supplements for libido at my age, but they are made with natural ingredients so I'm willing to give them a try.

    Thanks everyone.
    Although I don't have an answer to your problem, I can tell you that you're not alone! I've been having a similar problem since I was 25. (I'll be 27 this summer) My younger sister was having similar, but milder, problems & her doctor changed the birth control she was taking. It worked for her, so I was thinking about doing the same. Are you currently taking any form of BC?

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    • stonedhearted
      Junior Member
      • May 2013
      • 8

      I am taking BC, I started it this year in January. I haven't noticed any changed with my body since I started it.

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