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  • sheislove
    Junior Member
    • May 2013
    • 3

    Period Sex?

    My boyfriend is leaving the country soon and we want to sleep together again before he goes. Unfortunately I started my period today and he leaves in 5 days.
    If I don't finish before then, do you have any tips for sex during ones period? Reccomended positions? How to do it cleanly? Times? How do guys feel about this? How do girls? We have never tried shower sex but perhaps that's a good option?
  • Element
    Veteran Member
    • Jun 2012
    • 308

    Shower first. Lay down a towel. Have kleenex, wipes on a nearby table.

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    • jns
      Assistant Admin
      • Mar 2010
      • 8398

      There is a bit more lubrication during sex when the girl is on her period. There is also the scent of blood, although not too strongly. As a guy, it never bothered me.
      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
      ...
      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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      • stonedhearted
        Junior Member
        • May 2013
        • 8

        It's not as messy as one would think. Well at least for me.
        Just place a towel on the bed in order to not get the bed dirty. Then shower together afterwards.

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        • Romy
          Veteran Member
          • Jan 2014
          • 339

          I agree - it's not as messy as you think. Every partner I've ever slept with has had no problem having sex during my period.

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          • YNGBLCKMN
            Member
            • Jan 2014
            • 10

            It is not bad AT ALL!! Shower for freshness and allow the natural linrication to do the rest!

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            • catwoman
              Senior Member
              • Jan 2014
              • 150

              What everyone else said. Just lay a towel down, and especially if you are 5 days into your period it should be considerably lighter. Or, if he really isn't into the idea of it, you can have sex in the shower. That way any mess it automatically rinsed off.

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              • jen1447
                Veteran Member
                • Oct 2013
                • 2380

                Plus it can be really good sex.

                I think guys' reactions depend mainly on how hung up they are on the concept of cleanliness. (Obviously your flow will affect that too.) The BF can't stay away in my case, so it's not an issue.

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                • KMonte85
                  Veteran Member
                  • Oct 2009
                  • 3303

                  Hey y'all.. the OP announced her conundrum in May of last year. I'm pretty sure she and her boyfriend figured it out, one way or another!

                  Another tidbit of knowledge for those averse to bloody sex, is for the gal to use a menstrual cup. Unless you're going really crazy in the sack, or had it in for many hours, it won't leak (so no blood to worry about). And it doesn't reduce and feeling/sensation for either party during intercourse.

                  That being said, everyone's advice is still true today for other people seeking the same information, but I'm going to close this thread so focus can be put on active members' more current topics.

                  Happy Wednesday!

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