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how do i do it??
hi.. i'm 20 years old.. me n my gf have been dating from a year and a half we both are virgins and we have decided to have sex.. i would like to make it a wonderful experience for her.. i wanna do it like the way most women like their guy to do.. experienced women plz help me out here -
xyz, I am not a woman but I've been doing this for a while. First and foremost DO NOT attempt to imitate or expect anything you've seen in porn. Your lady DOES NOT want to be treated like a piece of meat or a *****. (at least not at this point and I don't mean that in a derogatory way. You'll figure that part out later) For now, know this...woman are as different as stars in the sky. Never assume that because you heard or read that woman like (blank) that YOUR lady will. It just does not work that way. The key is communication and experimentation. Take your time the first time, set the mood, and for God's sake do not be intoxicated lol. You will remember your first time FOREVER. Make it special. Love and caress her, you two will be nervous and excited but as the man reassure her of your commitment to her and how special this moment is. Don't pressure yourself or set the bar too high. Just let it happen and enjoy eachothers bodies in an intimate and beautiful way. Good luck my friend!Comment
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