Hi. I have Been masturbating for Some Time now but I've Never had an Orgasm. I've Always Been doing it with my Electric toothbrush and it does Feel Good, but it just doesn't Turn me on. I'm a Virgin, so I do Not Want to have to Put something into my Vagina. Do you have any ideas what I Could do? I really Need help...
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Work on mood control. Take a shower that makes you feel soft and warm. Put on your favorite perfume. Find something sexy and make it a reoccurring theme such as looping a clip from a movie. Work on lighting. Play your favorite song that makes you feel sexy. Day dream your electric toothbrush is something else that you find sexy.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia -
Try the "Hitachi" magic wand. It is amazingly powerful. (The cadillac of all vibrators in my opinion), LOL. You can buy it discreetly online. I got mine at eyecandysextoys.usComment
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My friend had the same issue, and she went to her doctor, and he said she had a small clitoris. This made it harder for her to achieve an orgasm. But you body is probably used to the same amount of stimulus, so you should either upgrade to something like a Bullet, sold in most adult stores, or if you would like to be more discrete detachable shower heads are great, as are back massagers. No one really thinks its strange to purchase those. And good for you being a virgin!! I wish I would have waited.Comment
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Oh my gosh! Thank you! This site ships to Guam! I haven't been able to find a site in over two years, and my old toys are done! I'm so excited thanks for sharing!Comment
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Have to agree with Italiam Sweetie....the Hitachi Wand is incredible....much better than a toothbruch althoughit's considerably more expensive.Comment
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