[Amyx]

Okay so I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 18 (yes I know we are young) we have been in a committed relationship for two and a half years, at the beginning we had sex 2/3 times a day on the days we would see each other and it was great, but the sex didn't really mean anything back then. Then it changed to 4/5 times a week of really great deep emotionally connecting sex, and now our sex life in non-existent! I am currently unemployed but my boyfriend works 40 hours a week in a warehouse and I understand that he is tired after work but we have sex like 3 times a month! We sleep together (in the same bed) every night and don't really spend much time away from each other other than when he is at work, I love him to pieces but its just making me so depressed, like I'm not good enough and that he isn't attracted to me even though he says he is when I bring it up, and just today he gave me some b****ll**** about him being stressed and hiding his emotions because i dont work he worrys about money ecttt, I don't know what to do anymore, would really appreciate any advice/tips!! X

[texasgal]

Since you are in a relationship try becoming more like a partnership. I would first suggest that u get a job. Not only for money but for your self esteem! U have too much time on your hands to think and as women we will think ourselves into a bad mood. Get yourself active and possibly out of his company sometimes. Show him that you can be independent. Or if ur not already show him u appreciate him and what he does. Cook him dinner wear something cute. I'm sure there's nothing wrong with u personally. You have some insecurities that need to be dealt with.

[gizzy]

My boyfriend won't have sex with me

My boyfriend and I have been together for six years I have got pregnant three times by him all unplanned I had one miscarriage and two abortions, I am on the pill haven't stopped, The start of this year I found out that I was pregnant this was the third time and second abortion I had, now he won't sleep with me because he's scared that i'll get pregnant again, it's been 7 weeks without sex and i'm feeling very low especially when I had the house to myself for two weeks you would think he couldn't wait to be alone with me so can have sex nope we didn't even come close, I feel like I'm embarrassed to show any parts of my body to him and feel it's hard to touch him in private parts, I where my pj's to bed when we stay together because what's the point in dressing up nice as we don't do anything anymore, it just feels like were not acting like a couple we don't really hold hands he never say's any nice things to me we only have a kiss and a huge when we first meet up and leave, I just feel like I'm unattractive. Please help?

[iamsima]

Sex is a very important thing for all kind of people.Any one can not live without sex.The western country people are doing this sex before marriage.It doesn't matter for them.But a Muslim country people can not do that before marriage.