[Tessa_Leighann]

Hi for starters I'm going to say my language art skills is horrible so bare with me.My learning disable sucks.Okay well this has be bothering me so much i have cried and everything I seem to not have a hymen or lost it and never had sex,does that mean i lost my virginity? or not?I really want to ask my partner but his phone is off and is not on my Skype.Also will it still hurt or bleed when i have sex for the first time?Will it still be tight or hard to get his penis inside I'm very embarrassed about asking this i just need help I'm scared of losing my virginity.Please help me

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Your Hymen can break, riding a bike, getting on a horse and going horse riding, lots of things, masturbation.

There is a stigma about this and my answer is simple. It doesn't matter if you have or haven't. In my opinion a virgin is someone who has not had sex before with a man, she can claim her virginity. But, breaking your hymen can occur before that happens naturally.

Will it hurt? It is different for everyone, will you bleed? Same. If you have broken your hymen maybe it wont.

If you are concerned at what your boyfriend will do, how he will react when you first make love, google and point him to the first paragraph, it's written everywhere in cyber space...

[CoolBreeze]

Tessa don't worry. Do you have an older adult around, with whom you can discuss these subjects clearly and intimately. There are sex education clinics in Alberta where you can get good information about all your questions. And please don't get apprehensive, it will be the most beautiful feeling of your life. You must inform and educate your self about all the dos and don'ts. You should look forward to it instead of being scared about it.