[Lady lady]

hi
my partner has developed a habit of watching porn ( he's always loved porn) and masturbating when he says he's going to the toilet.
i keep catching him because its so obvious and i get really angry and offended. If i say anything to him about it he gets really angry and makes it like im the one with the problem.
i dont mind him masturbating (as long as he's still being sexual with me, which has been a problem in the past) but does he have to do it when im in the house?? im aware he does it when im not home and im ok with that but find it really disrepectful when me and our son are in the house. i think it also comes across as him being sneaky.

my question is why does he get so angry when i catch him out (i can hear it through the door)? am i not ment to say anything and just ignore it? im sick of fighting over this issue when i feel like most of the time im being pretty lenient about it. and can he seriously not go without till he gets home at night...i would love to be involved lol

thanks

[iamsima]

Masturbating is a very harmful thing for health.But some times my husband wish to do that.When i was not stay with him and he feel to sex then he do that harmful thing like as masturbated.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Is there a time for masturbation? Or is it when you feel horny I understand what you are saying but what is he looking at in the toilet? A magazine? Or thinking of you?

When he does it when you are not at home and it's to porn, often it is the case of not you, just men have a partner for life but honor their partner and so won't stray this is their way out, I guess. Fantasy.

But that fantasy can make them masturbate more and not have sex with their partner.

The fact it's been a problem in the past means he is not being a partner, rather doing what he wants and if you miss out bad luck. But, sex is sex, making love is bonding, and sometimes I guess we have to compromise a bit, if we are not adventurous and not share the same passions sexually? Only you can answer that part. And, think about that.

He can not get angry. He is masturbating too much neglecting you . So you both need to sit down and discuss your sex life, intimacy bonding and work towards this I think.

It is only harmful if you are dissed over it.

It can definitely make a man not cum and therefore get bored in the art of sex.