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  • a_dub
    Veteran Member
    • Dec 2011
    • 514

    Extended cunnilingus session


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    Ladies, have you ever been eaten out as the main course, so to speak, of sex? Like been eaten out for an hour straight or longer? Men, have you ever been with a woman who's vagina was so delicious that you couldn't stop licking up the juices?

    I have this recurring fantasy of spending hours just giving a woman oral andgetting her to orgasm after orgasm. Is this even feasible? Will one's mouth and tongue get tired? Do women even want to be licked for that long or have that many orgasms?

    I'd love to try it out one day and answer those questions for myself but till then I must rely on my fellow posters to answer.
    Last edited by Alison H.; 02-03-2021, 07:35 PM.
  • CoolBreeze
    Senior Member
    • May 2013
    • 112

    You bet, done properly it's incredible. Just make sure you keep the strokes and pressure applied, varied enough to avoid numbness. The clit is just the tip, you should try stimulating other parts beneath it. Humming or creating slight vibrations also do the trick. I just love it when men go down without any inhibitions and provide full serving. I would advise to go ahead and make your fantasy a reality.

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    • HisGirl
      Senior Member
      • May 2013
      • 129

      Hmmmm…... Let me think, hours focused solely on my pleasure? Would I like that? Why yes, yes I would! I’ve never lasted more than 15 minutes though, but it is feasible, so go for it!

      Yes, changing up the areas you focus on will keep it exciting and keep it from getting boring. Hours is a long time. Keep her guessing! Especially if you want to give her multiple. Move to her thighs for a while and her breasts and back down. I’d prefer a prolonged build up to one amazing orgasm, over the one orgasm after another, but that’s just me. I don’t know if staying in the same position for that long would get uncomfortable for a guy, but I’d assume so. So changing positions would be fun, you know, since you’re going to be there for a while! lol

      It will help to really know the girl too. Hopefully, she’ll tell you what works on her, if not, then just ask her, and then you can use that to your advantage. For example, the right side of my clit is much more sensitive than the left side. I’ve shared this with my guy and now he knows if he wants to prolong things he’ll tease the left side, but when he wants to bring me home, he concentrates on the right. A little knowledge can be a deliciously dangerous thing!

      And hopefully she’ll be so appreciative of your selfless efforts in giving her waves of pleasure, she’ll want to give you an hour long blow job in return!

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      • a_dub
        Veteran Member
        • Dec 2011
        • 514

        Originally posted by HisGirl
        And hopefully she’ll be so appreciative of your selfless efforts in giving her waves of pleasure, she’ll want to give you an hour long blow job in return!
        Don't think I'd last that long. Especially after the prolonged wait of eating her out for that long. Maybe a 1 minute long BJ is more appropriate? LOL.

        Whats the longest BJ you've ever given your husband?

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        • jns
          Assistant Admin
          • Mar 2010
          • 8398

          Originally posted by a_dub
          Men, have you ever been with a woman who's vagina was so delicious that you couldn't stop licking up the juices?
          Sounds like every woman I've ever given oral to.
          I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
          ...
          Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

          From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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          • wino33
            Member
            • Aug 2013
            • 33

            Absolutely. Your jaw will definitely start to feel it and your tongue will tire if you're not in a comfortable position, but the hour long foreplay is always fun to have every so often!

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            • Obelisk
              Veteran Member
              • Jul 2013
              • 441

              So the women I've been with liked the licking, but usually 5 mins into it they really, really wanted me to go inside them (penetrate). Is this normal?
              Pigeonholer extraordinaire!

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              • jns
                Assistant Admin
                • Mar 2010
                • 8398

                Originally posted by Obelisk
                So the women I've been with liked the licking, but usually 5 mins into it they really, really wanted me to go inside them (penetrate). Is this normal?
                It's normal, but with qualifications. It depends on them and it depends on you.

                If they enjoy oral with one or multiple orgasms and you are good at oral, longer oral sessions are likely. Some women don't enjoy oral or get nothing from it. Of course, if they don't get oral in a way that excites them, even a woman who immensely enjoys oral will want to move on. When giving oral, it is necessary to observe what seems to be working. It can also be useful to get vocal feedback of what is working, but that doesn't happen in all cases. Learning to be good at oral is a skill that needs practice, adventurousness and time.

                Most women enjoy intercourse, so there will always a desire for it, at least after a while.
                I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                ...
                Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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                • CoolBreeze
                  Senior Member
                  • May 2013
                  • 112

                  When it comes to physical intimacy there are no absolute "normal" or "abnormal" issues. All is relative and communicating with your partner in a clear and precise manner would make the whole picture clear. What one might want or how one responds at a given time might not happen at all times.

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                  • jslater
                    Member
                    • Aug 2013
                    • 25

                    My wife loves it when I go down on her but only for short periods at a time. Her vagina is incredibly sensitive so her max is about 10 minutes at a time. The advantage to that is she can have orgasms pretty easy through intercourse. So what I do that drives her crazy is I alternate from oral to intercourse, back and forth. It helps me last a lot longer and I can give her as many orgasms as she can handle. For her it's really about the build up...many small ones leading up to that breath-taking one at the end. I know I've done my job well when all those endorphins have been released and she doesn't even want to move afterwards.
                    "Be the change you want to see in the world" - Mahatma Ghandi

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