[DoNotWannaTalkAboutIt]

Hi, okay, here goes. I have a super sensitive nose and when I smell a smidge of "funk", body juices from 'the remains of the day'... I get turned off entirely. The funk is strong and even though she showers or bathes, sometimes it just doesn't work. It's like she didn't wipe well enough. I LOVE sex and especially oral for her but cannot do it often because it's just funky. When I was single there were women that just really took care of themselves in that way but my wife does not. What to do.
Sincerely,
DoNotWannaTalkAboutIt

[kira]

First she should be checked for a bacterial infection. There are some that cause no symptoms except a smell that won't go away. 2nd trimming hair down there with a beard trimmer can greatly reduce bits of urine being left behind and old vaginal secretions hanging around on the ends of the hair.

I also have a very sensitive nose. Personally no matter the hygiene level I just can't stand the smell and taste of a guy after he's worn pants all day and the body has released secretions especially if there was any sweat so I only do oral directly after a shower. I'm quite happy to do oral but not when a penis tastes like gym socks. I notice it on myself too. In the fold of my leg released skin moisture will build up and it smells bad to me. I go clean it off and dry the area very thoroughly. I also get upset with my husband for spreading vaginal secretions around during sex instead of keeping it all down there because I can smell it later on the blankets or pillows. While I don't have a bad smell I don't want to smell it everywhere. He doesn't seem to mind at all and does oral all the time because it arouses him as much as me but he does comment if I haven't trimmed my hair down there in too long.

[DoNotWannaTalkAboutIt]

Hmm, good info. The other smells are from the "other" region down there too. I know she likes to be entered from the back (no anal by both our choices) but the moment things get going I smell EVERYTHING! as if she didn't wipe. I'm sure it's just microscopic pcs that have, pardon the term, fermented for a while, like your sweat story, but it just overwhelms me and I can't wait to be done at that point. It's sour and smells bad. So, you combine the vaginal smells with the rectal stew and it's a mess. If I catch even a hint of it I shut down physically. I have lately been showering just before I know, or sense, that we'll be intimate hoping she'll do the same, with no success. I've even gone total oral on her right after a shower hoping she'd think "hey, I like this (because she always orgasms) and maybe if I shower in the future before sex he'll do it again!". Nope.
Now I have to hint with things like "no, not tonight, I'd have to shower and I'm wiped". I really do like sex it's just that if I know I'm going to shower and she isn't, well, then, I don't really want to engage.

[FortunsFoole]

That is really hard. Do you think if you had like the adult version of baby wipes maybe sitting out on the toilet tank, that she would use them because they were there? That may help with things on the back end. Maybe having oral be something you do in the shower together.. but you wash each other first? Maybe even make the washing part instructional for you? Then if she misses instructing areas you can ask about washing there.. making it kind of exploratory and fun. Or you could skip the whole instructional part and move things into the bedroom after showering together. That's usually how my husband and I go about it after a long day. One of us will give the other a lingering kiss and pull away saying, "I think we should take a shower." It's become one of our I-want-you signals now.

[DoNotWannaTalkAboutIt]

FortunsFoole, that is an interesting approach. I'll have to consider it. I know she had baby wipes there a few months ago. She's not prone to vaginal infections so that's good. But once a person gets that smell in their senses...it's so hard to erase. I remember one time before I was married and this woman and I were really into it. I flipped her over onto her knees on the bed and just as I pulled her legs apart to continue our sex I saw a food particle that didn't make the toilet paper run. And to top it off it smelled bad. It was a bad scene. I was trying to go deep with her because she said she wanted me to and with each thrust it's like I wafted more air up and I would get a big wiff. I had to finally hold my chin up and breath air that was up high. I'm tall and this was a wild scene. She finally finished, hard, but I think things fell apart shortly after that. I'll never look at green chiles the same.