[unoswag]

Hi. I was thinking whether to ask this question in one of those 'Penis Size' thread, but it might not be related, so I opened up a new thread instead. Here goes~

My boyfriend is a virgin. The first time we wanted to make love, I was a little surprise to see his foreskin is a little too long, it doesn't retract below the head when he erects, I did BJ for him and I pulled the skin down, he was in pain and asked me to stop (pulling the skin). It isn't erect hard enough I had problem wearing condom for him and couldn't go into penetration (It isn't hard enough to 'get in').

This is the first time I encounter such issue, I want to help him so badly (having the mutual pleasure) but I don't know how...

Any suggestion?

[CoolBreeze]

Unoswag uncircumcised men have sensitive glans when compared to circumcised ones. You have to be careful doing it for his first time. For young boys with extra foreskin it is normal to experience such irritation or pain during their first exposure to sex. Just don't pull hard on the foreskin and be careful about over stimulating the glans during your initial encounters. If you perform oral be extra cautious about your teeth snagging the foreskin back and forth. Wish both of you the best of your virgin experiences.

[unoswag]

Hi coolbreeze. Actually we're not young anymore, I'm 29 and he is 28, and I'm not a virgin. It's my first time seeing such situations and I don't know how to deal with it. He did some research too so we'll see how things go

[Little]

He may have a condition called phimosis - AKA narrowing of the foreskin over the glans. You should google this condition and see if it sounds like what your boyfriend has going on.

If this is the case, he may read that he needs circumcision surgery, but new information suggests that using a steroid cream and manual stretching can fix most cases. He should ask a doctor, but ensure that the doctor knows something about intact men before taking that advice - in some places, intact men are few and far between and intact men with phimosis even fewer, so doctors won't necessarily have experience treating them conservatively.

[candy.girl1412]

he has phimosis. depending on how mad it is, he may need surgery, but in most cases you can stretch it out by doing daily excercises. will take time but eventually he will be able to pull it back. he will aslso experience very sensitive glans, he head of his penis, because its never really touched, he will also need to work on that.

[unoswag]

Thanks for the reply Little and candygirl. I googled it up and it does says the condition.
We went to a trip last weekend and talked about this. He did his research too and understand that for penetration, he needs to get the skin down. He tried on his own and realized it wasn't as painful as the first time, in fact, he didn't feel any pain! (which is good I guess...)
We masturbated each other and his erection was alright I tried pulling his skin a little lower and he was OK about it. We didn't have sex as the hotel bed didn't seem hygienic. Will have another trip this weekend and we'll see how it goes...