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  • amys87
    Junior Member
    • Oct 2013
    • 5

    my boyfriend watches porn everyday

    Ive been with my boyfriend just over 2 years and we r living together for the first 6 month are sex life was great then he wanted internet on and then after that i noticed r sex life started going down hill and he wanted to stay up later on a night so one day i looked on history on computer and notice he was goin on porn now and again it didnt bother me at first but for the last 8 month he seems to be on it every day and we only have sex twice a month now, and he only seem to want me if I stay awake and he cant go on porn its like hes using me and this as caused me to go off him i feel like hes thinking bout born wen we have sex so i dont enjoy it as much as i should is this normal
  • rcoreyus
    Veteran Member
    • Sep 2007
    • 4369

    You will find a lot of posts on this topic on these forums. Some people (including me) think that porn is OK as long as it doesn't interfere with your sex life, but when it does (as it is in your case), then there is a problem.

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    • amys87
      Junior Member
      • Oct 2013
      • 5

      Yes I also think porn is ok if he does it now and then but hes on it everyday i think thats to much he always goes on it wen im asleep or he sends me to shop so he can go on it and if I go to friends or fsmilys for a few hours he gets paranoid thinking im up to no good y is this?

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      • ItsAllAboutTheGirl
        Member
        • Oct 2013
        • 14

        Hi Amys87, I responded in your other thread here: https://www.womens-health.com/boards...stion-men.html

        Please read my response as I am a man with a similar past experience to what your boyfriend is going through right now.

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        • booboo
          Junior Member
          • Oct 2013
          • 2

          I know how you feel, I have also been with my boyfriend just over two years and we have only lived together since January. At first it really bothered me how much he watched porn. However him watching porn never interfered with our sex life. Eventually I had enough and had to talk to him about how I was feeling, Although it didn't interfere with our sex life I found that when he watched it infront of me it kind of ****ed me off. Now he doesn't watch it infront of me unless I agree I want to watch it too. Instead he watches it while I am at work If he is at home or once in a while he'll go to the bathroom to do it if I am on my period. For us it was about coming to an agreement. I know I can't stop him from looking at porn and he knows theres a time and place to do it.

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          • anchel1231
            Junior Member
            • Oct 2013
            • 7

            I think Porn in not a problem. It is a normal thing. but in your case if you think this is a problem for you then once you should discuss about this and confess him.

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