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  • rebejes3
    Junior Member
    • Oct 2013
    • 1

    He is my first... Need advice on sex and love making tips...

    Hi
    Grew up in an orthodox family and did not have a boy friend... Finally found a very good one.. He is the first person who kissed me and so nice to me...
    We did make out couple of times and I really enjoyed it.. Now we started talking about love making however we planned to do IT after the wedding
    Now I am wondering is there anything I should know about first time love making As I got couple of red flags about being painful and discomfort.., however I wet my undies when we talk about it and even if he touches m hand that too a lot of it And am not sure whether it normal ??
    Any suggestions, thoughts and tips highly appreciated
    Thanks
    Beck
  • rcoreyus
    Veteran Member
    • Sep 2007
    • 4369

    Is it his first time as well?

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    • anchel1231
      Junior Member
      • Oct 2013
      • 7

      This is due to more sensitivity toward the sex so don't worry about this.

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      • jns
        Assistant Admin
        • Mar 2010
        • 8398

        Originally posted by rebejes3
        Hi
        Grew up in an orthodox family and did not have a boy friend... Finally found a very good one.. He is the first person who kissed me and so nice to me...
        We did make out couple of times and I really enjoyed it.. Now we started talking about love making however we planned to do IT after the wedding
        Now I am wondering is there anything I should know about first time love making As I got couple of red flags about being painful and discomfort.., however I wet my undies when we talk about it and even if he touches m hand that too a lot of it And am not sure whether it normal ??
        Any suggestions, thoughts and tips highly appreciated
        Thanks
        Beck
        You are normal. Don't over-think things. Worry about problems after you have found them to be problems instead of before they are problems.
        I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
        ...
        Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

        From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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        • Gary7
          Member
          • Aug 2013
          • 56

          Best advice: 1) Use protection 2) Have fun.

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