Talk to her about it. Yes it is risky and yes it could destroy the relationship, but there's no real harm in trying to have the discussion. Opening up communication may just bring you to another possibility that may be less risky.
I have to say, even tho it isn't your question, that I would be a little apprehensive if my man brought this up after nearly divorcing me for going outside the marriage previously. Just saying, be prepared. She may be confused by this suggestion. I would be.
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Domi repliedBTW, I only want to do this if I participate myself, no sideline stuff...so a real MMF or MFMLeave a comment:
Domi started a topic MMF or MFM threesome with wifeMMF or MFM threesome with wife
I have a question for the married women on here.
I have been married for 5 years. My wife and I have a good relationship with regular sex but not too crazy. She is a bit shy about talking about it and her fantasies but I know she would like more excitement.
A few years ago we went through a difficult time and she cheated with another guy. I do not want to go into details of this but suffice it to say that we came close to divorce but have pulled ourselves through and have a good (better) better relationship now.
Recently, I have been thinking a lot about her being with the other or another guy and it really turns me on. I would not want her to cheat again as I hate the lies but if she does it with my permission I would be ok with it. I really want her to enjoy sex and would like nothing more then satisfying her with two. I am not bi and would want to focus on her but not completely against touching another man.
I really want to do this for her as long as she keeps on loving me as much as I do. I am afraid that this could go wrong and she would fall in love with the other, enjoy him more and continue behind my back or simply forget us when having sex with the other guy. I really want to do this to have complete openess between.
As she has some tendencies to have sex with others, it is better with than without me.
My question to the ladies ( in similar situations or with similar thoughts) is: do you think this is a good idea? Is it too risky and could it destroy our marriage? Should I even talk to my wife about this?
Thanksor
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