[Lass1234]

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My boyfriend and I were talking, and he was saying how he really wants to make me cum from my g spot because he thinks "it's like completing the puzzle" in sex. He says that he figured out how to make most of his ex girlfriends cum from their G spots, and I told him "they were probably faking it". He says they weren't, but he also says he has never seen a girl squirt. Now I thought that g spot orgasms and female ejaculation went hand in hand. Anyways, I tried to explain that a lot of girls, including me when I was younger and more insecure (but not anymore!) will fake orgasms like it ain't no thang. I had two long term boyfriends as a teenager and faked every single orgasm. Why? To this day I don't know. Why some of us women do it I couldn't tell you. It's kind of lame though because it raises these men who are terrible in bed but think they are kings. Anyways, I think that some of my boyfriends ex girlfriends, definitely might have just said they came from their G spot because he said he wanted them to, and they wanted to make him happy. Or just to shut him up haha. I know it's possible and so many women do it, but if he's claiming he has made multiple girls do it but never seen female ejaculation, what are the odds? Any thoughts here? I just want to open his eyes to the world of "baby, you're good, but not thaaat good" I mean come on I'm trying to help him better himself!

[jen1447]

Hey hon, the short answer is no. You can (and many women do) have g-spot orgasms without squirting, and you can squirt (and many women do) without having g-spot orgasms. So your BF is technically right, or at least not wrong in and of his claims alone, tho that doesn't automatically make him a cassanova lol or even make it any more likely that all the orgasms he thinks he caused were real. Even if women were squirting for him all along, it wouldn't necessarily mean they were orgasming, since squirting is not exactly the same physiological function as a man's orgasm and ejaculation. That said, many and probably most women orgasm when they squirt. They just don't have to. Confused yet?

The ability to squirt isn't tied directly to the g-spot anyway, tho that is a common way to make a woman squirt. (You don't squirt out of your g-spot itself or even the urethra, you squirt from your skene's glands.)

As to the odds, well "multiple" girls is what, 10? It's entirely possible that he gave 10 girls g-spot orgasms and none of them happened to be squirters, yes. However I will say that in your descriptive paragraph above, fwiw, your BF sounds like a fairly typical mistaken 'prowess' guy (the real ones don't need to brag or make claims or keep counts generally), so chances are his figures are lower than he thinks. Go ahead and put him in check.

[Justice]

Jen you crack me up.

Lass I have become a female ejaculator (FE) but I do wonder a bit on his claims.

I guess I would add to your question to ask any other women whether their g-spot orgasms without FE/squirting/gushing are as intense and clitoral ones. (So I wonder, like you how much they may have been faking - because mine being less intense I wonder if other women's are the big intense orgasm - my g-spot O's definitely are more Ahhhh, MMMM ahh, mmmm , ahh than the When Harry Met Sally .. OOOO OOOOOO OOOO OMG YES YES YES!!!

Because my are not - but mine do happen with FE. (But once I started having them - I can now ejaculate without g-spot stimulation.)

[jen1447]

Justice, you'e saying your G orgasms are not as intense? I think the 'norm' (as if there is such a thing lol) is that they would result more in the total body orgasm effect. I know anyway that the ones I commonly have where I gush at the end are extremely intense ....they're actually enough to take me out of the game for a while, which is no small feat.