[MarishkaYoukai]

Ok, so im a teen and sexually frustrated. My problem is, when i masterbate i cant cum . The first time i try (normally when i get from school) i use my back massager. I cant find pleasure any other way but my shower head or my massager. It feels really good and right when im about to climax it the feeling lasts for like a second and then stops. And after that i cant masterbate again because it just hurts.This is driving me insane. I try to masterbate every other day and sometimes i go the whole week without it because i cant deal with the dissapointment. I have a high libido and this is the only way i can get rid of all my pint up stress from school.i have tried taking it slow and be gentle but the results are the same either way.

[jen1447]

Hm, it's tough to have any real idea what's going on based on a paragraph, but my first reaction is to say you're focusing too much on the ends. Orgasms 'happen' more than anything else like being caused by a, b, c, at least that should be how you approach them. Saying "I've done a, b, and c but I'm not coming!" will not help the problem. I'd just relax, turn off the schedule and agenda, and play. What happens then, happens.

btw, if you're a younger teen hon you should probably discuss this with your doctor or some other trusted person rather than asking on websites.

[atskitty2]

I agree-talk to a doc or nurse. But since you're here, I am assuming you've had orgasms in the past to know what one is, and therefore realize you aren't reaching that peak any more? Just clarifying
Are you on any meds? Some meds can cause these problems. Stress? Is your stress level out of control?