[Romy]

My SO really a loves to cum on my clitoris, breasts and face. He loves cumming inside me as well but he really gets off though seeing his cum all over me....which has me thinking, what is it about that sight that makes it such a huge turn on for him? What do men like about that sight? I know there are some women who find a man cumming on their face degrading but in a loving relationship I don't feel like it is. My SO loves having my cum all over his face and if it's in the morning won't wash it off so I'm on him all day....I'd love to know people's thoughts.

[jen1447]

You seem to be a very sexual person Romy, always posting these inquisitive threads.

I can't speak for the guys, but I will admit I like giving my BF 'facials.' I haven't really thought about it honestly ....the appeal almost seems somewhat negative in nature because obviously what you're doing on the surface is making a mess of that person. But while no doubt a lot of sexual behavior is predatory or exploitative, I'd like to think that the motivation to do that to a significant other in your life is somehow more pure and based on love and affection, even if the end result is the same. Who knows, maybe it's just another form of bonding by sharing body fluids. Like kissing, only messier.

fwiw, I've never much liked being on the receiving end of those from guys. The BF says he respects me too much to want to do that, and in any of the more casual relationships or encounters I've had, I've generally guarded against any submissive type behavior, which I think facials tend to be more interpreted as in casual sex 'hookups.'

[DreamP346]

Facials have become really popular due to porn. I don't think 10 years ago people were doing it as often. The problem is that porn give men the impression that all women love is, whereas a large portion of women do not.

One of the reasons men like facials or cumming on a woman is that it's pleasurable. If you think about it, men have been masturbating since their teens. In most cases, they probably see (visually) their ejaculation and then have an orgasm. For years, they have trained their mind that seeing cum = pleasure. Now put that together with the face of the woman you love or a female body part that is really sexy, then double the pleasure. It would be like combining ice-cream and chocolate.

[jns]

I can't speak for the guys, but I will admit I like giving my BF 'facials.'

I've never gotten a facial from a lover, but personally I think I would find it hot. Of course, I like sex being messy. I'm also not against sharing food.

[bienvenotto]

Hi everyone,

I am new here and found out this thread an oportunity to start well.
I am male, so maybe I can talk about this cumming stuff ^^

There's something about cumming on the parts of body of a woman. Cumming inside her is a lot more pleasure and intense; it's like having double the fun. However, cumming outside, on parts of a woman's body is an expression of power. At least, I consider it to be. Explaining: seeing that lovely face that is beautiful and lively with your cum gives us, men, an incredible instantaneous raise of self esteem. It's like saying to yourself 'see?! u did that. u're a great alpha male. u own her. u can do whatever u want. u are confident.'; but this is, of course, in the stinct way.
In the sexy and motion way, all of this wish for a nice 'facial' is brought by porn. Men who aren't addicted to porn don't desired that much of facials. Men who are addicted (or maybe just a little) like the idea of it. And those a little more liberal already have considered to invite their beloved ones for what is called bukkake. My position on this point, I guess, will be sat on another thread, since this does not cover it.

And there's just a little chance, but just a little, that the will of cumming on a woman's face is just part of the sex routine.

Well, that's what I have to say by now.

[Romy]

You seem to be a very sexual person Romy, always posting these inquisitive threads.

I can't speak for the guys, but I will admit I like giving my BF 'facials.' I haven't really thought about it honestly ....the appeal almost seems somewhat negative in nature because obviously what you're doing on the surface is making a mess of that person. But while no doubt a lot of sexual behavior is predatory or exploitative, I'd like to think that the motivation to do that to a significant other in your life is somehow more pure and based on love and affection, even if the end result is the same. Who knows, maybe it's just another form of bonding by sharing body fluids. Like kissing, only messier.

fwiw, I've never much liked being on the receiving end of those from guys. The BF says he respects me too much to want to do that, and in any of the more casual relationships or encounters I've had, I've generally guarded against any submissive type behavior, which I think facials tend to be more interpreted as in casual sex 'hookups.'

Yes Jen, you could say I'm a very sexual person....I hear what you're saying in regards to taking on a submissive role in these situations. I don't feel like I am in our relationship though. I know how much I'm loved and my SO will spend forever pleasing me sexually, he's very giving and unselfish. I have never once felt like he is trying to dominate me. In fact he doesn't ask if he can cum on my face I would be the one to suggest it. In fact I love him to cum on my face then use his penis to wipe off his cum and I lick it off him. I find it a real turn on. We really like to mix it up....one day making beautiful sweet tender love the next can be hot, dirty, sweaty messy sex and I love it. If I wasn't with the right man I can see how it would feel degrading. I can't see much difference cumming on my face every now and again and me rubbing myself all over his face. He loves it, leaves it to dry and will go to sleep like that.

Thanks for your reply Jen, they are always insightful and appreciated

[Lovcookie]

Maybe a form of dominance for him. I enjoy it if the woman wants it that way but I much rather cum inside. They produced the best orgasms.

[JonDoe]

I like to try it in zero gravity.

[muffin70]

I think some guys do it because the have a fascination with a particular part of a womans body and maybe they cum on that particular part to show their partner how much they love them?
I actually get turned on by watching cumshot clips - especially if the woman is jacking the man off to climax.

I love women with large natural breasts and I am lucky my wife has large boobs.... unfortunately she thinks cum is very messy, yucky and sticky and won't have a bar of me cumming on her breasts or any other part of her body, so I always finish inside her

[Susan Sweetlove]

I have learned to like having a guy cum on my face. It was weird at first but like a lot of things sexual once you try it you get use to it. I use contraceptives but once years ago I got pregnant even though I was on the pill so I have a real phobia about having a guy cum in my vagina. I started letting guys cum on my face on in my mouth as compensation to them for not letting them cum inside me. I guess it can make a woman feel degraded if she feels degraded about the idea but I think if I choose to do it then it's not degrading to me. I can tell you it really really turns guys on so seeing them so excited turns me on. Its messy but I get turned on by the idea of being naughty anyway.