[Josephlin101]

I asked this question in a thread but got no answer, try my luck starting a new topic here.

I'm just curious. I imagine anal sex (between a man and a woman) will involve some smell or even poo problem, for those who have some experience, how do you overcome it?
Also, is enema a must?

[Susan Sweetlove]

I always give myself an enema before anal sex. I've read that some people say it's not necessary, but I like to feel clean.

[jen1447]

I think you're putting people off by putting "poo" and "smell" right out there ....I'll help out tho, there don't have to be any issues there. The receiver (assuming she's 'regular') should have a BM a few hours before at least, enema optional. Clean the area with soap and water. The issues should not be issues, tho always bear in mind that we're human beings so if something goes wrong, one way to guarantee you'll never get in there again is to make a big deal about it.

[Heather971]

I asked this question in a thread but got no answer, try my luck starting a new topic here.

I'm just curious. I imagine anal sex (between a man and a woman) will involve some smell or even poo problem, for those who have some experience, how do you overcome it?
Also, is enema a must?

There are some woman do do an enema before anal sex and there are some who don't.Just like Jen mentioned some just makes sure that they are clean there.I myself just makes sure I am clean there,because my man also likes tonguing me there as well.The main thing about having anal sex is to make sure that you use ALOT!! of lube or some anal ease and make sure that you are relaxed and have him to go slow.Anal sex can be very pleasurble if you do it right.

[Josephlin101]

Thanks for all the replies!
Chances are I'll never get the chance to do that for the rest of my life. It sounds like fun and exciting... but I think I'll be ok. Just fantasizing it is enough.

[jen1447]

lol - the power of the bum never ceases to amaze.

[HerHusband]

Going to put in my feelings from a mans point. I did the homework before we worked up to it. It was my fantasy and after the fact she admitted she would have done it years sooner if I had been as gentle as I was when we started it. Now she loves it. Cant orgasm but we are trying. Poo isn't a problem. You should listen to the advice of the other women here as far as prep. We have not had a problem at all. Once I had a small, small fleck of something on her cheek near her anus and considering how hard we were going at it Im surprised its wasn't more and now after doing this for a while we don't worry as she checks a few hours before to make sure its clear.
In a 12 hour span we had a few sessions. I came in her anal twice and once I came again within 5 minutes in her vagina after, not including a BJ after the shower. She occasionally brings up the issue of going anal to vaginal but we are very clean and in the heat of the moment its a moot point. Never had any kind of issue. For the record she had a vaginal orgasm the mng before this and the next day. She cant orgasm more than once a day but I really hope to fix that. I love to make her happy and there are times like this when she just wants me to go crazy because she likes it regardless of if she comes.

[Archer]

Preparation is key; look at it from a psychological standpoint. If either of you isn't sure about what you're going to find in your little journey back there, neither of you will really be able to let loose and enjoy it for what it is.

In my experience, definitely make sure she has already emptied the area earlier that day. You can use an enima, but if she has already gone to the bathroom, a good detailed soap and water inside and out works too. As long as you're both confident that everything is clean enough to eat off of, you're in the right spot.

The key thing is getting her to relax. The horror stories you hear from the girls who never want to even try usually begin with a guy who had no idea what he was doing making it an extremely painful/unpleasurable experience for the girl. Once she is clean, and that is off her mind, consider having her lie on her stomach, giving her a full body massage, head to toe, kissing her, telling her how beautiful she is, relaxing and reassuring her that it's just as much about her as it is about you.

It should be sensual. It should be a gradual warming up of the area, rubbing the outside, slowly sliding a finger in, and eventually going in for it only after she feels like the sexiest woman on the planet, and trusts that you will listen to her feedback the whole way through. You're talking about a very vulnerable position for a woman to be in, trust is huge. But all of these steps happen SLOWLY, especially with someone who isn't used to it. Every step along the way, stop, reassure her, continue to touch and massage her body, until she is ready to continue on.

Patience. It pays off.

P.S. Don't cum inside her. It's a pain for her to clean up, and will most likely be a good reason for her to say no in the future

[Josephlin101]

Thanks HH and Archer's ideas and kindly help.

[chaya]

I do many things for my husband out of a sense of duty. If he asked me to do anal sex, I would refuse.

I don't judge, it's just not for me, am I the only one?