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  • AlyJay
    Junior Member
    • Apr 2014
    • 2

    Pain in uterus during sex?

    I am rather young still and have never seen a gyno. Whenever my boyfriend and I have sex I get a burning/stinging pain in my uterus. It's only on the left side and it isn't very deep, it feels like it's on the wall in a shallow area of my vagina. It doesn't hurt any other time except after I may be a little sore. My boyfriend is rather "large" and I'm fairly tight so could it just be the size differences or something to be concerned about?
    Thank you.
  • Trixareforkids
    Banned
    • Mar 2014
    • 737

    Are you using condoms?

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    • AlyJay
      Junior Member
      • Apr 2014
      • 2

      No. But he knows he does not have an STD

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      • Trixareforkids
        Banned
        • Mar 2014
        • 737

        Darlin' if you're not using condoms and you've never seen a GYN then what are you doing about birth control? Also if he's ever had sex with anyone before he could have an STD and not know it, happened to me and the hubby. We don't know which one of us had it originally, since we'd both been with other people not long before we got together, but about 2 months after we started having sex we were both getting treated for genital warts (which are caused by HPV). Until you've been having sex for at least 6 months and KNOW that it's safe, NO GLOVE = NO LOVE.

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        • Motorguy
          Veteran Member
          • Mar 2014
          • 3921

          Originally posted by AlyJay
          I am rather young still and have never seen a gyno. Whenever my boyfriend and I have sex I get a burning/stinging pain in my uterus. It's only on the left side and it isn't very deep, it feels like it's on the wall in a shallow area of my vagina. It doesn't hurt any other time except after I may be a little sore. My boyfriend is rather "large" and I'm fairly tight so could it just be the size differences or something to be concernou really ed about?
          Thank you.
          Well Alyjay you really need to go see a gyno you really could have STD's if your boy friend not using condoms. Because not getting this check could lead to sterilization never having kids to blindness or death so it's very important you get check out. Find out what your boy friend sexually history is has he use condoms in the pass all the time. There nothing wrong to ask the gyno these question better to be safe then sorry. In the feature use condoms unless you keep dating this boy friend and he doesn't cheat on you. Then you both get tested for STD'S so you both know all is good period.
          When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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          • Motorguy
            Veteran Member
            • Mar 2014
            • 3921

            Originally posted by AlyJay
            No. But he knows he does not have an STD

            Did he go get tested you can't assume with no symptom your boy friend doesn't have a STD'S there many types of them. Don't take his word for it that's just wrong.
            When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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            • CHANDLERS WISH
              • Mar 2008
              • 22440

              Originally posted by AlyJay
              I am rather young still and have never seen a gyno. Whenever my boyfriend and I have sex I get a burning/stinging pain in my uterus. It's only on the left side and it isn't very deep, it feels like it's on the wall in a shallow area of my vagina. It doesn't hurt any other time except after I may be a little sore. My boyfriend is rather "large" and I'm fairly tight so could it just be the size differences or something to be concerned about?
              Thank you.

              Hi Hon.

              You did ask if it is "anything to be concerned about" and as you can tell the answer given to you is "yes".

              No. But he knows he does not have an STD
              You know? I could be anything from thrush, to STD, to UTI. If it's thrush, it will continue as you are giving it back to each other and that would be due to the fact that he is larger and perhaps you are not wet enough. You can't cure that without some medication over the counter but it should itch as well and be swollen around the v. It could be a UTI, burning is part of that but it could also be a STD. Did you know that some STD's aren't actually known as in don't show themselves, stay dormant for years. Herpes is one of those.

              I know love is love gawd, thinking back CW 16 almost 17, no 20, oh dear even older not a good role model for you, but merely understand "trust" of a man we did it all too back then.

              You really don't have a choice sweet. You have to go and see someone and whilst there discuss everything about other options.

              Contrary to what others have pushed hard (we are older) You should trust your boyfriend, that's what relationships are about, we just remember when we were your age

              Sorry if any of us sounded Mumsy.

              But, will you come back and also let us know?

              We'd love to know you are ok.

              CW
              PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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