[Something_Awesome]

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Hi everyone,

I am new here, and while I've already posted in a few discussions, I thought I'd take a second to mention a thing or about me and why I'm here.

Me: I am 30 and have been with my girlfriend for a little over three years. She is 28 and is the one.

Why I'm Here: I was researching stuff about sex and ended up stumbling upon this site. I browsed the discussions going on and found a lot of them to be quite compelling. Also, a lot of people here seem to have great insight!

My Issue: Many of you may have noticed a post on the first page of the "Sex" forum here titled Orgasms. I went through it in its entirety and it made me feel bothered about something that didn't bother me before. See, my girlfriend used to squirt all the time, and one day she just stopped. She just does not do it anymore. I thought nothing of it because I knew we both have great chemistry together, but reading the Orgasms post made me wish she still did. So I asked her about it and she did admit that, while squirting did not make her orgasms more intense, it made them longer. She also mentioned that she does not know why she stopped (though I have an idea as to why). It's been like a year since her last squirt. I mean, she really loves seeing me ejaculate so why shouldn't I love seeing her squirt, right?

I think what caused halt in squirting is that one day I was performing oral on her and I heard a fart sound from her. I thought nothing of it because I thought it was a queef (which will happen from time-to-time through oral). But then, the smell kicked in. Now I didn't really react to it much, but I got this vibe that she was hoping I thought it was a queef, but then knew the jig was up once the smell got to her. There was now a pink elephant in the room and she had an embarrassed laughter for farting on my face during sensual time. To be honest, it didn't really bother me. Nothing bothers me... or so I thought...

After I helped her get over it (because it made her feel super un-sexy), we were able to resume. We resumed and I got her to cum and she squirted everywhere. This orgasm was long and the duration of the squirt was long too. Why is this information significant? Because I had to swallow some of it. Now this normally would not bother me either; however, it turned out to be urine. I screwed up by telling her she pee'd on me, I know that. It was just an honest response I had to being pee'd on and swallowing some of it. I almost felt like vomiting and I was worried because I believe urine is toxic. The shock on her face when I said she urinated on me sort of broke my heart a bit. She took it hard. I'm guessing that it was because she was trying to squirt that she farted and pee'd on me (in the same session). I feel like she is not squirting because she is holding back; she does not want to be embarrassed like that again.

I asked her if that above incident is why she doesn't squirt anymore and she said no, that it was because she hasn't mastered it or something to that effect and that she would research techniques that would help her squirt. But after reading the Orgasms post, I doubt she will find any concrete info. I believe her because she is a crappy liar, and I know her well enough. But isn't it too convenient that her squirting stopped after that incident and has not re-occurred once for any of the countless orgasms thereafter?

I miss it now and don't want her to hold back if that's what she's doing

[jns]

It sounds like you looked the proverbial gift horse in the mouth.

Urine is only very mildly toxic as long as it isn't excessively concentrated such as by severe dehydration. Swallowing a small bit would not normally be dangerous. It could contain some diseases if the person who is peeing has them. As it comes out it is almost sterile.

Prime Minister Morarji Desai of India was a proponent of urine therapy.

[Something_Awesome]

Jns, are you saying that I should just let it go then?

[jns]

Yes, let it go. If you want to do anything, make sure she has peed before starting a session. I doubt she peed on purpose. She was probably just trying to squirt too hard and urine came out instead.

As for the flatulence, I think that most every guy who has gone down on a girl long enough has got intimate with it at one time or another. Laugh it off. Make some jokes that aren't aimed at her.

[TwistyDeb]

Aww bless her. I think in time it will return but she is probably so scared of squirting now incase it she accidentally pee's that she does not want to get embarrassed like that again.
Time will get her squirting back im sure. Maybe really relax her one night. Body rub with oil let her know of your intention of going down after the body rub so she has the opportunity to pop to the loo beforehand?

[Motorguy]

Aww bless her. I think in time it will return but she is probably so scared of squirting now incase it she accidentally pee's that she does not want to get embarrassed like that again.
Time will get her squirting back im sure. Maybe really relax her one night. Body rub with oil let her know of your intention of going down after the body rub so she has the opportunity to pop to the loo beforehand?

Well Deb squirting for women is all mental they are not allowing there to relax to let lose thinking they may pee and not really squirt there female discharge. So then be completely embarrassed about it if they do pee.

[Bulldog]

Sorry to hear it stopped. My girlfriend does it always and numerous times.

To our surprise she once did pee while I was licking and using fingers. During her O she released both.

We've both laughed about it. She's also lost bowel once during finger O.

Guess I'm good with it cause how cool she has such a strong one that she loses all control!!