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  • cutie000
    Junior Member
    • May 2014
    • 1

    Just a bit Painful?

    Hi, I'm new and have no idea how to blog... I don't really know what I'm doing besides just looking for answers. Also... so sorry it's so long. I'm in pain and I'm a little scared.

    Firstly you should know that I took an emergency contraceptive pill last month before my period. It still hasn't shown up, but I'm getting symptoms such as irritability and (very) tender breasts.
    I recently had sex with my bf about three days ago, and during the first round it felt really good. However, he turned me over the bed and started to thrust kind of hard into me, when I felt pain deep in my abdomen and below my belly button. It hurt so bad I ask him to slow down, but I couldn't handle it so we switched positions, but he soon realized I was bleeding. We quit sex and waited an hour.

    Second round, we tried again but I wasn't aroused and my insides had cooled down. He didn't try any foreplay. I didn't didn't want to disappoint him so I just tried to get back on top and warm myself up. Eventually things smoothed out without pain but when I orgasmed I saw the blood spurt out. I'm so sorry for the visuals. =(

    My insides ached all night and I bled lightly until morning. The day after we had sex, I went to the hospital where they tested me for pregnancy and the doctor put the camera inside me, but it hurt like hell. Btw, I'm not currently in the States and I'm not very good at the language here... so the doctor couldn't understand me well and vise versa. I told him it hurt but he didn't seem to care until the nurse went around the curtain to watch him.

    They diagnosed me with Vaginitis, (he said it in english), but he said he didn't know why my abdomen hurt.

    My questions are... should I go to see another gyn? Do you think my bf just penetrated deeper than normal, and I'm just really sore? Even now, the pain hurts. Feels like contractions. Not nonstop pain.

    Any suggestions would help.
  • PinkySweet
    Senior Member
    • Mar 2011
    • 168

    Well I cannot speak for you but...

    Ive noticed when having sex bent over something or "doggy" style my husband does penetrate deeper and sometimes it can be a bit painful when hes goes very deep. Some people actually like it and some really dont.

    Also the second was probably awful because you weren't aroused :/

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    • PinkySweet
      Senior Member
      • Mar 2011
      • 168

      Also if you dont trust the results the doctor gave you, always seek a second opinion from somewhere else.

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      • jen1447
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2013
        • 2380

        Yeah, I'd see another doctor. You should never accept unaccountable pain as just an "oh well" thing, because it might mean you have an injury. If you do, it needs to be treated.

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        • rcoreyus
          Veteran Member
          • Sep 2007
          • 4369

          A hospital, (was it an emergency room) is mostly interested in whether an injury is life-threatening. Probably best to go to your regular doctor to see what the problem is and if it can be made to heal quickly.

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          • Motorguy
            Veteran Member
            • Mar 2014
            • 3921

            Originally posted by cutie000
            Hi, I'm new and have no idea how to blog... I don't really know what I'm doing besides just looking for answers. Also... so sorry it's so long. I'm in pain and I'm a little scared.

            Firstly you should know that I took an emergency contraceptive pill last month before my period. It still hasn't shown up, but I'm getting symptoms such as irritability and (very) tender breasts.
            I recently had sex with my bf about three days ago, and during the first round it felt really good. However, he turned me over the bed and started to thrust kind of hard into me, when I felt pain deep in my abdomen and below my belly button. It hurt so bad I ask him to slow down, but I couldn't handle it so we switched positions, but he soon realized I was bleeding. We quit sex and waited an hour.

            Second round, we tried again but I wasn't aroused and my insides had cooled down. He didn't try any foreplay. I didn't didn't want to disappoint him so I just tried to get back on top and warm myself up. Eventually things smoothed out without pain but when I orgasmed I saw the blood spurt out. I'm so sorry for the visuals. =(

            My insides ached all night and I bled lightly until morning. The day after we had sex, I went to the hospital where they tested me for pregnancy and the doctor put the camera inside me, but it hurt like hell. Btw, I'm not currently in the States and I'm not very good at the language here... so the doctor couldn't understand me well and vise versa. I told him it hurt but he didn't seem to care until the nurse went around the curtain to watch him.

            They diagnosed me with Vaginitis, (he said it in english), but he said he didn't know why my abdomen hurt.

            My questions are... should I go to see another gyn? Do you think my bf just penetrated deeper than normal, and I'm just really sore? Even now, the pain hurts. Feels like contractions. Not nonstop pain.

            Any suggestions would help.
            Do your self a favor like Jenn said go see another doctor that was a very rude doctor. Sounds like no compassion by this doctor at all so get a 2nd opinion right away, with hold from sex till you get a correct diagnosis of your pain in your abdomen and the bleeding you experience with boy friend.
            When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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