[mrs-pip]

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Hi everyone am new here and hoping you can help me with this.

I've never had a G spot orgasm and never bothered about it to be honest. I won't say that me and my husband are looking to spice things up as our sex life is good but a few weeks ago I decided to buy some creams and lube from Ann summers just to add a bit fun in the bedroom (the 5 things I bought only 2 of them were any good!) anyway it got me thinking about trying to get a G spot one.

I'd say it could take me anything up to 10 mins to orgasm through the normal way - a little quicker through oral but I just don't know what to expect with the G spot. It all feels very nice but it just doesn't feel like I'll get there.

Any tips or advice please?

[Motorguy]

Hello Mrs-Pip my wife loves her g spot play with the fingers then a pocket rocket used on her clitoris within 10 mins, I can have her squirting with this stimulation. If we don't remove the sheets and bed spread she will drench them with her female orgasm. If you try this it will be a real power orgasm and will enjoy every bit of it for wife it never gets old. You can Google the g spot and watch videos how to pleasure this spot and make a wonderful time for you and husband.

[mrs-pip]

Thanks. It sounds good. I just feel a bit frustrated as we've only been trying this for a few days and it feels nice but I just don't know if it's meant to be the same build up as a clit one.

How do you tend to do it? Hubby just lies on his side but think he gets a bit sore.

[PinkySweet]

The main way I can achieve a g spot orgasm is from being on top(Cowgirl) because I can control the depth, angle etc..

Usually a lot of foreplay and my husband bringing me close to orgasm many times through clitoral stimulation and then just stopping once I get close and just let it die down for a few seconds, then I get on top and it usually never fails lol...

Trust me youll know when your having a G spot orgasm its almost unexplainable lol

[mrs-pip]

I think it would still be best for to get there with his fingers.

Is it possible to get there just with rubbing it with fingers?

[jen1447]

By normal one do you mean clit orgasm? Everybody's different so there's no catch-all way to go about it, but g-spot arousal and the whole process can often take quite a while. I wouldn't necessarily look at it as constant vaginal/g stimulation tho, just get yourself warmed up thru a lot (and I mean a LOT) of foreplay, oral, and whatever else you feel is generally erotic, and then what happens will happen.

Do you know where your g-spot is? You can have your man massage it when you get warmed up enough. Some people find that it's easier to do with fingers than a penis, so don't be shy about that if it's what seems to get a response from you. Overall, just relax, take your time, and let it go. You'll be glad you did - g-spot Os are awesome.

edit - I posted this before I read the responses.

[bubba29]

many women cannot orgasm from g spot stimulation alone. add in some clit stimulation and enjoy a different and maybe more intense orgasm.

[Motorguy]

I think it would still be best for to get there with his fingers.

Is it possible to get there just with rubbing it with fingers?

They do make a vibrator with a angle up tip to pleasure your g spot as to where it's located inside the vagina. Using this and a pocket rocket over the clitoris this will shoot you to the moon just ask my wife lol.

[mrs-pip]

Thanks for the tips. Yeah I know where my g spot is. I tried for 30 mins tonight and nothing happened

[jen1447]

Did you use a toy? It can be hard to work that area yourself with your fingers.

If it doesn't seem that sensitive, you may still be able. Try focusing more on just 'filling up,' or possibly even some anal. That tends to stimulate the right places for some women, and the idea of being 'off-the-hook' helps ....vaginal orgasms tend to be more spiritual, so the mind plays a bigger role than anything else.