[Patti-here]

I never understood the big boob/small boob preference stuff. A woman's natural body is a wonderful sight to behold .... if she feels comfortable in her own skin, size (in virtually all respects) doesn't make my top 50 traits for a great relationship.

Yeah effy, I agree a girl.womans size shape should suit her bodies shape.

[jen1447]

There is a certain "squeeze me" allure with boobs which seems more pronounced the bigger they get tho.

[effy2014]

There is a certain "squeeze me" allure with boobs which seems more pronounced the bigger they get tho.

And then, sometimes more than a mouthful is simply wasted.

[Patti-here]

And then, sometimes more than a mouthful is simply wasted.

LOL effy I have heard that one in years

[ms_lorr]

I never understood the big boob/small boob preference stuff. A woman's natural body is a wonderful sight to behold .... if she feels comfortable in her own skin, size (in virtually all respects) doesn't make my top 50 traits for a great relationship.

Ohhh, it's not about the size, more the ratio of boob to waist to hips. Even smaller one have the right effect if the tum and waist look right. I'm average sized, and my small waist make them look very pronounced.

You don't need to understand, men's minds are stupidly simple. See what they like and dress to suit then you wont go wrong.

[jen1447]

And then, sometimes more than a mouthful is simply wasted.

I know you're joking, but I've never worked over a nice sizeable pair of boobs and felt there was anything wasted!

[Patti-here]

I know you're joking, but I've never worked over a nice sizeable pair of boobs and felt there was anything wasted!

Hmmm, why do I see both sides of this ?? BTW my G/f has much bigger boobs than mine are,, you can get a little lost in those girls

[effy2014]

I know you're joking, but I've never worked over a nice sizeable pair of boobs and felt there was anything wasted!

Indeed I was. There are certainly benefits to larger breasts. I just never selected selected a woman based upon breast size or size in general. I'm a sucker for conversation, accomplishments, confidence, passion and (gasp) personality. As I wrote before, there is beauty in every woman's body. Who she is makes her more or less attractive.

My ex-wife had a girlfriend who was drop dead gorgeous. After two dinners with her and her BF, I couldn't stand to look at her.

[Baboy]

I know this has now evolved to become something of a "boobs" thread - and I love all manner of boobs as much as anyone - but may I be so obtuse as to hark back to the original topic for a moment?

With respect to favorite positions, my wife's fav is lying on her stomach with me on top. The position rcoreyus described early in this thread. I think Awesome described the same thing.

The spoon position has also been mentioned, and my wife and I like that one a lot. Perhaps what we like best about it is if we want intercourse to last over a long period, then lying in the spoon position with penis in vagina and not a whole lot of movement is great. We can just lie quietly and enjoy the nice feelings. I usually reached around and hold her boobs and maybe touch her clit a little. Sometimes we’ll start off with 5 minutes or so of missionary, then 10 minutes of spooning with minimal thrusting, then maybe 5 minutes of doggy, another 10 minutes of spooning, then another 5 minutes or so in some other position to finish, or finishing in spoon position but with resumed thrusting. So, in the end, we have spent usually at least half an hour and maybe up to an hour with penis in vagina.

I usually come within about 5 minutes of her assuming the lying on stomach position. It’s just so stimulating for me. I can thrust away for just about as long as I like in missionary, woman on top or spoon position, although not always. Sometimes I cannot contain myself for more than about 5 minutes no matter what. Other times, I seem like a super stud porn star and can go for as long as I want. More rarely, I require what seems like an inordinate length of time to come. On occasion, I wonder if I actually will. I start to feel like the male version of Sophie in the old “On Top of Old Sophie” song. But, happily, my wife seems to know what I am thinking and makes the right moves to get me over the top. Never have I failed to orgasm even if it has been slowing to get there. I don’t know if other guys are like me, having these kinds of variations.

My wife seems to share some of the same attributes. She is fortunate in that she can come from a variety of stimuli and usually with little effort. Sometimes she’ll orgasm within a minute of penis in vagina. Other times, it can take quite a bit longer. To us, the physiological variations just make things more interesting.

One gf a long time ago needed a lengthy period on intercourse in order to come. Oral or manual clit stimulation would usually bring her to orgasm within a couple of minutes, but straight intercourse, unless combined with clit stimulation, rarely did the job. He fav position was spooning, with me touching her clit. But sometimes she wanted a long intercourse session without clit touching. She would indeed have a great orgasm through intercourse alone, but it took a long time for her to get there. She said the kind of orgasm she got at the end of such a long session was in a class by itself. So, wanting to be a good lover, I would dutifully seek to keep intercourse going for as long as possible. She even told me that a former bf could go for an hour and a half. I took that as a throwing down of the gauntlet! I actually timed our next session - a whole 2 hours! Victory! I hope she has told subsequent lovers that she once had a guy who could pound away for 2 hours. Even in spoon position, going non-stop for that much time was usually more than I wanted. Stopping and just staying inside her would break the chain of orgasm causation, so I had to keep going. It was enjoyable going that long sometimes, but I would not want a steady diet of it. But then she did not expect it every time, so we were quite compatible.

While extended sex sessions are great, I have never been a fan of “quickies”. I am not really sure of what defines that term, but it seems to connote a very short duration of intercourse. For many, I am sure there is nothing wrong with that. I have avoided it because I enjoy (and so does my wife) more prolonged intercourse and, truth be told, I fear that indulging in so-called quickies will re-program my sexual function so that coming quickly will become normative. There is no shortage of threads on this forum with both men and women complaining about the effects of the dreaded “PE” and I want to do nothing to conscript myself to the ranks of PE sufferers. I’ll continue to take my time.

I don’t know about other guys, but I have never had many male friends who speak frankly about sexual matters. Some sexual banter, but that’s usually it. I recall one who is more candid speaking on the subject of the evils of guys masturbating and allowing themselves to come quickly. He admonished that such will lead to becoming hard-wired to that result and will make them unsatisfactory sex partners. It may not be a universal truth, but to me it has a kind of common sense ring of truth to it. I have avoided quickies or anything of the ilk to obviate the risk of which he spoke. Besides, anything worth doing is worth doing well and highly truncated lovemaking sessions strike me as less than satisfying. I say that recognizing that for some, it’s part of a great package, without resulting in any sexual dysfunction.

In our own situation, these days, what my wife likes to do is to go for awhile in missionary or some other position until she is getting close to orgasm. Then she’ll roll over onto her tummy, knowing that within a few minutes we’ll both come at the same time. If she wants to come in missionary position, she just lets me keep going and, when her orgasm starts, that will usually get me to orgasm. Her obvious excitement and movement drives mine. She can always tell and, if she senses I am not quite in sync, she’ll grab my balls and gently squeeze. Works every time!

This has turned into a longer post than intended, but I’d be interested to know if others here enjoy the kind of occasional prolonged intercourse that we do - penis in vagina and really just cuddling together for perhaps 15 - 20 minutes or so, then moving to another position or at least starting movement again, with perhaps another spooning period before both reaching orgasm. We like this a lot, but maybe it’s not in the repertoire of other couples.

[jen1447]

Great that you're putting in the effort she needs.

On quickies, one thing to note in their favor is that they don't have to be the beginning and the ending. You can start with a quickie (like in some place that you wouldn't want to go too long) and just continue it somewhere else, but the brief stint can be pretty hot.

I like the prolonged penetration thing too ....the BF and I prefer missionary for that, and sometimes we'll actually just lie there and have regular conversations for a while, still joined, then some more grinding/hammering or just slow thrusting, then more relaxing conversation, and so on and so on. He's got the conditioning now so that he can stay hard after cumming too, so sometimes we even stay that way for a while after we've both 'busted.' Love it.