[jen1447]

I personally don't think there has to be any issues with having roles. You're submissive Patti-Pie, and that's fine. You shouldn't feel any desire to be bossy just to even things out. That's not you and you'd be acting like somebody else by doing it. (Role-'play' is another story ....if your GF would get off on being bossed around once in a while, that would be reason enough to act that way, but there wouldn't be some need for you to really be that way.)

[Patti-here]

No she'd hardly hardly get off on being bossed around, and she'd LHAO at me evening trying.

[CapeCRunner]

I love when my husband is dominant. He's a very polite, nice man... still opens every door for me, etc... I love when we get into the bedroom and that more playful aggressive part of him comes out. It's sexy and I get turned on right away when he pins me down, or spins me into a new position on a whim. I definitely like being more submissive.

There have been a few times where I've blindfolded him and tied him up though and he loves that because he doesn't know what's going to happen next. Those neckties are good for something