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  • cutelife
    Junior Member
    • Jun 2014
    • 2

    Penetration Problem..........Like to die

    I am facing the exact problem as the below women but a slight different way...at the end nor the women posted its successful or not? will this kind of problems solved or permanent for ever?have you read any where this kind of cases please advise....



    My story in 90% same...

    I'm 27 Yr old, married for the last one year.
    Myself and my husband are facing a problem recently...
    Everytime He tries to insert the penis into my vagina, it slips upwards (outside) and it gives the same feeling that penis is going inside. We have had sex many times earlier and He had ejaculated too. But now we feel that penis had never gone inside and all these days we were actuallly doing it outside only. We are so very worried about this. Everytime He ejaculates, so much of sperm lies outside and even the bed becomes wet. Now we are trying for a baby and we feel that we are very unsuccessful. I didn' have any bleeding or immense pain so far and so He doubts that my hymen must not have broken yet. I am from India, and if any relatives know this case , they may harm my husband too...and I will be left alone...Please save my beautiful family life...I am happy in all aspects except this penetration problem...Anyones' sincere suggestions and advice is appreciated.
  • Motorguy
    Veteran Member
    • Mar 2014
    • 3921

    Originally posted by cutelife
    I am facing the exact problem as the below women but a slight different way...at the end nor the women posted its successful or not? will this kind of problems solved or permanent for ever?have you read any where this kind of cases please advise....



    My story in 90% same...

    I'm 27 Yr old, married for the last one year.
    Myself and my husband are facing a problem recently...
    Everytime He tries to insert the penis into my vagina, it slips upwards (outside) and it gives the same feeling that penis is going inside. We have had sex many times earlier and He had ejaculated too. But now we feel that penis had never gone inside and all these days we were actuallly doing it outside only. We are so very worried about this. Everytime He ejaculates, so much of sperm lies outside and even the bed becomes wet. Now we are trying for a baby and we feel that we are very unsuccessful. I didn' have any bleeding or immense pain so far and so He doubts that my hymen must not have broken yet. I am from India, and if any relatives know this case , they may harm my husband too...and I will be left alone...Please save my beautiful family life...I am happy in all aspects except this penetration problem...Anyones' sincere suggestions and advice is appreciated.
    Maybe got visit your Obgyn and see if this fact is true that your hymen is still intake. You then can find out why your husband can not enter you at all he keeps slipping out you may need to seek professional help for these answer you are looking for good luck.
    When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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    • kira
      Veteran Member
      • Feb 2008
      • 986

      Have you tried inserting a finger? You might be able to tell if your hymen is intact, how tight things are, and learn what it feels like so you are better able to tell if the penis is in the proper place.

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      • Natalie1962
        Member
        • Jul 2014
        • 71

        It just takes practice...practice...practice. Perhaps if you got on top of him and lowered yourself you could control penetration. If the penis is slipping and sliding but not making entry it may take you to reach down and guide him to your entrance.

        Natalie

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        • jns
          Assistant Admin
          • Mar 2010
          • 8398

          Try to have sex when there is some light so your husband can look to be sure he is inside you. Or maybe use the light from a cellphone to check. The lady usually knows where her opening is, so you can guide him in as Natalie said. The good news about trying to have a baby is that his penis does not have to go inside, only the semen. Of course, it's more likely for you to get pregnant if his penis is going inside you.
          I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
          ...
          Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

          From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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