[TrevorBarker]

The sex that my partner and I have feels really good...........but.............It's always in the missionary position. That position works for her and it feels good for me but I want her on top, or I want to take her from behind. She likes anal but that isn't my thing.

She gets very vocal during sex but never initiates the actual sex.

Any tips?

We talk about about this all the time but she gets very shy

[Something_Awesome]

She may not be comfortable with her body in other positions. Remind her she is a sexy from all angles!

Could use a bit more info to be honest.

[Motorguy]

The sex that my partner and I have feels really good...........but.............It's always in the missionary position. That position works for her and it feels good for me but I want her on top, or I want to take her from behind. She likes anal but that isn't my thing.

She gets very vocal during sex but never initiates the actual sex.

Any tips?

We talk about about this all the time but she gets very shy

Well Trevor you said that anal is not your thing but your girl friend likes it. Well come to a agreement you will try anal with her if she agrees to try other sexually position with you pretty simple in my book. That's how relationship work you compromise together. So it makes it a healthy and happy relationship.

[SpicyV]

The sex that my partner and I have feels really good...........but.............It's always in the missionary position. That position works for her and it feels good for me but I want her on top, or I want to take her from behind. She likes anal but that isn't my thing.

She gets very vocal during sex but never initiates the actual sex.

Any tips?

We talk about about this all the time but she gets very shy

I used to be like this when I was younger. Talking about sex made me anxious. I wanted the lights off and no new positions or anything different. Then hubby grabbed me on the couch in the middle of the day. Well things changed drastically after that. Sometimes doing something unexpected will make all the difference. Having the lights on and me being able to see the way he looked at me was a total game changer.

[jen1447]

Turning her down on anal probably isn't encouraging her to open up and share other ideas. Why not give her some, even if it isn't your thing? When you communicate consistently that it's about her and her pleasure, she'll feel more comfortable.