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  • wdigital
    Junior Member
    • Jul 2014
    • 3

    Bedroom Dares - What turns you on ?

    Hi everyone!

    I'm in a bit of a pickle. Me (<- the boyfriend) and my girlfriend want to play truth or dare or next week for a date night, but I'm having trouble of thinking of dares (and truths) that will be a turn on for her.
    I find that I'm basically turned on by anything she does (the curse of being a guy haha ), but I find it hard to think of dares directed towards me that she will enjoy and find pleasure out of.

    For instance I'm into anal activities (both ways) while she is a bit more shy towards these activities, so I feel I benefit more from a truth or dare game then she does.
    I'm looking for dares which will cause me (the guy) to feel a bit shy or uncomfortable (in a good way) with.

    So the bottom line is: What type of dares, directed towards a guy, will turn you on ?
    What tasks and deeds do you think will put a guy out of his comfort zone ?
    Generally what do you want your guy to do ?

    We are a very open minded couple so any suggestions will be much appreciated , no matter how 'weird' or how 'boring' they are :wink: .

    Thank you !!
  • jen1447
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2013
    • 2380

    I'm a little confused ....she'll be coming up with her own dares for you that will presumably turn her on since she came up with them, right?

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    • wdigital
      Junior Member
      • Jul 2014
      • 3

      Hi Jen, thank you for the reply.

      Yes she will, but there are only a few dares and questions she came up with. We want some inspiration to add to our lists of truths and dares .

      To approach my question in a different way: I have a list of 50+ dares prepared, where she only has a list of 25+ dares prepared. So we are looking for some inspiration to add a few dares on her list. If you like I could post the truths and dares we have on our list to date ?

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      • Claret
        Assistant Admin
        • Jan 2011
        • 1823

        Hi wdigital, I'd say that these are your games, why do you want us to play it for you? Truth or dare is normally about something the other person wants the truth about, or the consequence is quite dire. What does she want to know the truth about? Your dares would be something she'd want you to do that you maybe wouldn't otherwise do on your own in consequence of not telling her the truth or not telling her anything.
        That which we forget may as well never really happened.

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        • wdigital
          Junior Member
          • Jul 2014
          • 3

          Hi Claret,

          We don't want other people to play the game for us, but we are looking for inspiration or new ideas. We as a couple feel it is important to push the boundaries of your relationship and also try to keep the relationship fresh and exciting.

          Me and my girlfriend have been dating for more than 6 years and we have been through quite bit but we always stick together and work through the problem as a couple, so the truth aspect isn't a problem since we know each other well. We are more specifically looking for dares rather than truths, but if there is a fun or emotional question which could be asked then it will exciting as well.

          The truth and dare game is just the most exciting game we have come across so far, but other suggestions for a couples game will be much appreciated .

          Thank you for the reply btw Claret.

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          • Claret
            Assistant Admin
            • Jan 2011
            • 1823

            Then, I'd probably suggest a visit to an erotic store where they have all the toys, books, lotions and potions that you'd want and you could find exactly something to pique your interest. I'm sure some people here have their own games they play and would gladly share them with you.
            That which we forget may as well never really happened.

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            • Motorguy
              Veteran Member
              • Mar 2014
              • 3921

              The best adult game stripe poker bar none. It can turn into very excited after everyone is naked lol.
              When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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              • Elena_EvilEye
                Veteran Member
                • Jun 2014
                • 372

                Originally posted by Motorguy
                The best adult game stripe poker bar none. It can turn into very excited after everyone is naked lol.
                I love playing that with my husband. I also like naked twister
                It's all fun and games until you mess with a Portuguese girl.

                -

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                • Motorguy
                  Veteran Member
                  • Mar 2014
                  • 3921

                  Originally posted by Elena_EvilEye
                  I love playing that with my husband. I also like naked twister
                  Well yes when I was younger, I can't twist like that any more or I be in traction for a month lol. Oh yea old age has been catching up with me now days.
                  When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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