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  • Claret
    Assistant Admin
    • Jan 2011
    • 1823

    Shibari

    I came across this term today, I had not heard of this although I have heard of the practice. I thought some persons on the forum may be interested in reading up further on:

    What is Shibari?


    In Japanese, “Shibari” simply means “to tie”. The contemporary meaning of Shibari describes an ancient Japanese artistic form of rope bondage.

    The origin of Shibari comes from Hojo-jutsu, the martial art of restraining captives. In Japan from 1400 to 1700, while the local police and Samurai used Hojo-jutsu as a form of imprisonment and torture, the honor of these ancient Samurai warriors required them to treat their prisoners well. So, they used different techniques to tie their prisoners, showing the honor and status of their captured prisoner.

    In the late 1800′s and early 1900′s a new form of erotic Hojo-justu evolved, called Kinbaku, the art of erotic bondage. Today, particularly in the west, the art of erotic bondage is typically called Shibari, which is an art of erotic spirituality, not a martial art.

    Shibari style rigging creates geometric patterns and shapes with rope that contrast beautifully with the human body’s natural curves. The ropes and their texture provide contrast to smooth skin and curves. In Shibari, the model is the canvas, the rope is the paint and brush, and the rigger is the rope artist.

    The aesthetic arrangement of ropes and knots on the model’s body in Shibari rigging emphasizes characteristics like sensuality, vulnerability, and also strength. The positioning of knots in appropriate places stimulates pressure points on the body, very similarly to acupuncture techniques and Shiatsu, a form of Japanese massage. Some believe a Shibari experience also stimulates Ki energy flow and transfer.

    In addition to creating beautiful patterns, with rope, body and limb placements, Shibari rigging induces physiological conditions known as “sub space” and “top space”, which are similar to the “runners high” experienced by athletes. A Shibari experience results in an increased level of endorphins and other hormones, creating a trance-like experience for the bottom/model and an adrenaline rush for the Top/rigger. When a Shibari scene is performed with appropriate ambience, these effects are actually visible in the face of the model. The term “rope drunk” is sometimes affectionately used to describe the euphoric condition of the model after a Shibari experience.

    For most practitioners of Shibari, the use of rope bondage does not include an unwilling victim like the “Damsels in Distress” images popular in Detective type magazines. Instead, there is a collaboration between the Shibari artist (the rigger/Top) and the Shibari canvas (the model/bottom) to create a combination of effects including visual beauty, power exchange, helplessness, relaxation, and sub space and top space physiological experiences.

    Contemporary practitioners of Shibari enjoy creating beautiful still images, live and recorded performance art. Shibari can also be used as a component in BDSM play and an enhancement in sexual activities.

    You may want to google for some pictures, it really is quite artistic.
    That which we forget may as well never really happened.
  • Motorguy
    Veteran Member
    • Mar 2014
    • 3921

    Very interesting pics posted on the internet Claret, All most like body art with women being tied up like clothes or tied up and it looks like art very interesting. Have you follow this type of bondage and joy into this practice as well.
    When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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    • Claret
      Assistant Admin
      • Jan 2011
      • 1823

      No, not me personally, but I thought it an interesting concept. It's done on males as well, it's not limited to women. I just really liked the artistic component of it.
      That which we forget may as well never really happened.

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      • Baboy
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        • Aug 2012
        • 774

        I'm going to show some of the pics to my wife and ask her if she has any interest in being trussed up like a turkey and hung from the ceiling like a chandelier. On second thought, I think I know the answer.
        I do not grow old; if I stop growing, I am old.

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        • Motorguy
          Veteran Member
          • Mar 2014
          • 3921

          Originally posted by Claret
          No, not me personally, but I thought it an interesting concept. It's done on males as well, it's not limited to women. I just really liked the artistic component of it.
          I did as well with the art of the whole thing all the pics. All I saw was of women it was a little erotic I am not going to lie about that. I mean for me never have been into bondage but for art it was like looking at soft nudity pictures.
          When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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          • Claret
            Assistant Admin
            • Jan 2011
            • 1823

            Originally posted by Baboy
            I'm going to show some of the pics to my wife and ask her if she has any interest in being trussed up like a turkey and hung from the ceiling like a chandelier. On second thought, I think I know the answer.
            And when you pick yourself up off of the floor, how long will it take to heal?
            That which we forget may as well never really happened.

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            • Baboy
              Veteran Member
              • Aug 2012
              • 774

              I doubt I would recover.
              I do not grow old; if I stop growing, I am old.

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              • muffin70
                Veteran Member
                • Aug 2013
                • 384

                I've 'suggested' the idea of bondage to my wife - I would love to tie her up woth some of her pretty scarves, but she wouldn't like it because she is afraid I would ejaculate on her body and/or her scarves - which is exactly what I'd like to do :-)

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