[Lena1]

My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months and he takes a really long time to finish and sometimes he doesn't even finish and he says its because he feels bad because I finish in no time at all but he doesn't like me having to put in the effort, even though I'm very happy to because I enjoy giving oral. He says he enjoys me giving him a blow job but I just feel so bad and discouraged when he doesn't finish and even more so when he doesn't finish even after sex. I've tried to replicate what I've done the few times I've made him finish and it doesn't seem to work. And I can see that he feels disappointed because he hasn't been able to finish because he knows I feel bad when he doesn't. Am I doing something wrong?

[Motorguy]

My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months and he takes a really long time to finish and sometimes he doesn't even finish and he says its because he feels bad because I finish in no time at all but he doesn't like me having to put in the effort, even though I'm very happy to because I enjoy giving oral. He says he enjoys me giving him a blow job but I just feel so bad and discouraged when he doesn't finish and even more so when he doesn't finish even after sex. I've tried to replicate what I've done the few times I've made him finish and it doesn't seem to work. And I can see that he feels disappointed because he hasn't been able to finish because he knows I feel bad when he doesn't. Am I doing something wrong?

How long is he taking to orgasm Lena, Some guys get excited faster then others does he take a long time to get erection. Doesn't he stay erect during the whole time of sex or he go limp these are question that many will asked to help what his problem could be. Maybe use a vibrator around his testicle while doing oral on him. Maybe more teasing and till he really erect so you can get the build up to his own orgasm, then when he does then he can make you orgasm with oral play or intercourse then you both happy. Till he works through this problem it's all mental for him right now there's a block he needs to relax and just enjoy him self with you.

[Lena1]

It can take anywhere between 40 minutes to over an hour and sometimes he goes limp during oral and sex. Thank you for your advice and tips, I'll try them out and hope for the best

[jen1447]

How old is he? Usually we hear the opposite reports, so you should feel lucky that you have no issues and he's willing to put all this time in.

[a_dub]

I used to take a while too cuz I was used to the grip of masturbation. Once I stopped I started popping like a loose canon, lol. I'm back on porn now so I should get my stamina back.