[muffin70]

well I've not tried a 69 with my wife (she's not keen) but did with my ex GF many years ago..... I cried out that I was going to orgasm, but she didn't stop and I exploded in her mouth.... then she told me off for not warning her I going to cum!

The best I've had was when I was sitting on the edge of the bed (feet on the ground) and wife knealt in front of me and gave one of the few BJ's I've had without having to wear a flavored condom... she rubbed her breasts over my erection then gave me a HJ to finish

[Magnetism]

There's almost no position where you can't work the clit. When sitting on his face the idea is that you help with that. Wiggling your bum back and forth so his tongue hits the right spot. Inserting the tongue is fine, and some women really like it, but the whole focus of oral sex on a woman has to be the clit. There's always an exception, but I'd say that's a 95% rule.

I know that some women like the insertion of the tongue, but I'm not like every woman. If I were to teach a sex class to men, the first thing I would say is, "Stop assuming that every woman is the same."

[Susan Sweetlove]

69 is a weird position. It's awesome as a concept. I mean you're both getting one of the best feelings that can be had, receiving oral sex. And if you're anything of a giver then at the same time you're giving your partner the best thing they can feel! Sounds so great. However, in practice I've found it less than the ideal. It's hard to concentrate on your own pleasure while at the same time concentrating on giving someone else pleasure. Anyway, it's great foreplay but I prefer some of the other positions mentioned. Being a bit dominant I'm a big fan of having the woman on her knees in front of me.

I agree Gary. 69 is a great concept but I find it not so easy in reality. If I'm getting really aroused from the guy performing oral on me I can't concentrate on performing oral on him. I find myself moaning and groaning so much I can't really do justice to his penis with my mouth. If I'm giving a man oral I want to concentrate on what I'm doing to maximize his pleasure.

[Gary7]

69 is only pleasurable for me, if the clit is being hit. If it's not, then it doesn't feel good. I don't like sitting on a man's face either, because all what he's doing is sticking his tongue inside me and not on the clit.

There's almost no position where you can't work the clit. When sitting on his face the idea is that you help with that. Wiggling your bum back and forth so his tongue hits the right spot. Inserting the tongue is fine, and some women really like it, but the whole focus of oral sex on a woman has to be the clit. There's always an exception, but I'd say that's a 95% rule.

[Gary7]

69 is a weird position. It's awesome as a concept. I mean you're both getting one of the best feelings that can be had, receiving oral sex. And if you're anything of a giver then at the same time you're giving your partner the best thing they can feel! Sounds so great. However, in practice I've found it less than the ideal. It's hard to concentrate on your own pleasure while at the same time concentrating on giving someone else pleasure. Anyway, it's great foreplay but I prefer some of the other positions mentioned. Being a bit dominant I'm a big fan of having the woman on her knees in front of me.

[Susan Sweetlove]

In my earlier replies I first thought of my favorite positions for giving oral sex, but not of my favorite positions for receiving oral sex.

My favorite position for receiving oral sex is me sitting on a sofa or soft chair with my hips hanging over the edge of the cushion, my legs spread wide with me holding my ankles and the man kneeling on the floor between my legs. This gives the man full access to my clit, labia, vagina and anus to stimulate with his fingers and tongue. I love having my vagina and anus penetrated with his fingers while he licks my clit with his tongue. I also love receiving analingus in this position. With enough stimulation in this position I can often squirt, showering the man's face with my juice, which is a nice corollary to him cumming on my face.

[bootsie]

Spin-off from favorite sex positions. My favorites are

1) On my knees, while the man is standing up and holding my head/pulling my hair.
2) Me lying down on my back, while the man is up near my face penetrating my mouth.
3) Him laying on his back, while he's also able to finger me when I'm giving him oral. It's hard to describe, but it's possible.


69 is actually not one of my favorite positions. It has been pleasurable in the past SOMETIMES, but other times it wasn't as good as the 3 that I mentioned.

Me on my back and the woman is squatting or kneeling over my face,taking both of her hands pulling my head to her.

[Magnetism]

If he is doing it right, he has either his upper lip or his lower lip whetted to stimulate your clitoris at the same time his tongue is inside of you. If you are in reverse, he opens and closes his jaw to get motion on your clitoris. If you are facing him, he has to move his head back an forth since the upper jaw is not moveable. Some women like certain edges of their vagina stimulated with the rougher part of the tongue - the back of it.

Ha, sometimes I wonder if the person wasn't doing it right. The best position for me so far has just been lying on my back with my legs open, so the clitoris is easily found.

[jns]

^That's hot! Being fingered while giving oral is the best feeling. Hands down.

69 is only pleasurable for me, if the clit is being hit. If it's not, then it doesn't feel good. I don't like sitting on a man's face either, because all what he's doing is sticking his tongue inside me and not on the clit.

If he is doing it right, he has either his upper lip or his lower lip whetted to stimulate your clitoris at the same time his tongue is inside of you. If you are in reverse, he opens and closes his jaw to get motion on your clitoris. If you are facing him, he has to move his head back an forth since the upper jaw is not moveable. Some women like certain edges of their vagina stimulated with the rougher part of the tongue - the back of it.

[JonDoe]

Ladies, you rock!