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  • bootsie
    Senior Member
    • May 2013
    • 154

    I masturbates maybe once or twice a day(which use to be three times a day)and sometime two to three times a week pending how horny I am and if we are going to have sex or not during that week.Sometimes if she knows that I am really horny and need some relief,She will help me or masturbate me becuase she is not in the mood to have sex.If I am at home along and is really horny and I'm thinking about her at the time,wanting to smell her sex scent and be makelove to her.I will go get some lube that we have in her toy box and a pair of her panties out of the clothes hamper and use them to masturbate with.Other times I will go get some lube and masturbate while thinking back on some of the awesome makinglove sections that we have had.

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    • Lexhill
      Senior Member
      • Sep 2014
      • 124

      from 1 to 3 times a day now a days. techniques vary from stroking to rubbing the Frenulum. Depends on when and where I am. Now a days I often use the rubbing of the frenulum in the morning while my wife still sleeps so she won't notice. That way I can watch her and get the visual stimulation as well then I usually leave the room to finish of. other times during the day is usually a quick hand job by my self in the bathrom. The reason for the "hiding" is explained in other posts.

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      • ANITE2REMEMBER
        Junior Member
        • Oct 2014
        • 2

        How often is normal for a woman?

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        • ANITE2REMEMBER
          Junior Member
          • Oct 2014
          • 2

          I know that I have however it wasn't until shortly after we were married that my wife did. It was like what the ___ is going on over there when we were going to sleep. If I said anything she would get angry. If I tried to help or anything she got angry. Again at first it was like what then it was like how often does she do this. Now 21yrs later after having been turned down hundreds of times during the years and noticing she does this sometimes now she doesn't mind if i rest my hand on hers when she's doing it she's ok or comfortable with it. Her periods never were regular never had a clue that could even be an issue but each year she will have several that last 20 to 30 days, really. Now it's never been a big deal. There have been times where she has turned me down and I accidentally wake up or something and catch her not intentionally just randomly. Now last night I went to bed and had the football game on fell a sleep in bed but woke up and thought crap she's still up and I forgot my medication. So I quick jumped out of bed and went to the kitchen and as soon as I come out of the bedroom I hear oh sht and there she is with her pants down to here ankles sitting upright on the couch. I thought WTF but I just went to the kitchen and turned the water on and took my med while hearing her underwear snap and her pants go up. I ignored it and went to back to bed. She came to bed soon after. I never said anything and she was in a good mood not snappy or mean or anything. So I believe she thought I didn't notice. But believe it or not we have only had sex once in all the time 26 years of dating and marriage while she had her period it just started 3-4 days ago and 7 days is short for her but this happened while she had her period. How long has this been going on? She has done this a lot where she won't go right to bed but come in shortly after. Once not to long ago she had a discharge like crusty discharge like dried cum like she had sex or was playing with her self and I asked if her if she had some type of STD or something since she has cold sores/herpes that were flaring up. Her response was like no but didn't offer any explanation. So my guess is that she has been more active than I could imagine like a number of times per week. I caught her texting a guy she works with more than once but only mentioned it once to her and she stopped for a month but restarted after that she claims its about work and mostly it is but reading some of the texts it's like a number of times she is flirting. This cold sore thing came out of the blue about a year ago when we didn't have sex for 3 months or more because she was more or less mad then I thought she got the cold sores shortly after some dental work. What do you think is she just habitually masturbating or is she fantising. Shortly after this period of no sex we had sex and she put her hands over her face more or less so she couldn't see me during intercourse. I was kind of devastated over that is that normal why would someone put their hands over there face right in the middle of it all. Has anyone done this before? Am I loosing my mind who is this woman?

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          • sexy brenda
            Member
            • Oct 2013
            • 44

            Originally posted by bootsie
            I masturbates maybe once or twice a day(which use to be three times a day)and sometime two to three times a week pending how horny I am and if we are going to have sex or not during that week.Sometimes if she knows that I am really horny and need some relief,She will help me or masturbate me becuase she is not in the mood to have sex.If I am at home along and is really horny and I'm thinking about her at the time,wanting to smell her sex scent and be makelove to her.I will go get some lube that we have in her toy box and a pair of her panties out of the clothes hamper and use them to masturbate with.Other times I will go get some lube and masturbate while thinking back on some of the awesome makinglove sections that we have had.
            Bootsie
            My husband also likes to masturbate like you do, by using a pair of my pants to catch the cum in. He usually does this when I am out meeting my lover as this turns him on. He usually likes to use a pair of my black pants as he says the white cum looks good to him upon black. I usually masturbate heavily indoors upon the bed when he is meeting his lover as I am turned on by that. Both my husband and I know about what the other is doing.

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            • Romy
              Veteran Member
              • Jan 2014
              • 339

              Originally posted by ANITE2REMEMBER
              How often is normal for a woman?
              Well for me it's pretty much everyday.

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              • Motorguy
                Veteran Member
                • Mar 2014
                • 3921

                Originally posted by Romy
                Well for me it's pretty much everyday.
                Wow Romy, I thought my Donna masturbated a lot as in everyday as well lol. So she not like the only one who does it as well lol. Some times she would tell me was she a freak as I told her what ever feels good enjoy yourself lol.
                When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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