[a_dub]

How many people think of other peopld when they're having sex? I've always found it unsettling to think about someone else when you're having sex. Its kind of offensive IMO. But I can also see how it might happen in a long term relationship since there will always be other people you find attractive.

So have you ever thought of someone else besides your partner during sex?

[kira]

I've never thought about anyone when having sex. I'm trying to think less about anything. Just do.

[muffin70]

I think of a number of things.... sometimes think of a scene(s) in a porn movie I've seen and how I'd replace the porn actress with my wife, sometimes look at my wifes pretty face and think 'I'd love to ejaculate over it' - but she would hate that. Sometimes think of my wife wearing her sexy scarf and think about ejaculating over her scarf and breasts (she'd hate that too!). I always look at her face as I am climaxing and I make sure I tell her I am cumming so she looks into my eyes too - if we are doing missionary position.