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  • Lovcookie
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    • May 2010
    • 222

    She is back

    Couple months ago my GF friend (work out partner, sometimes sex buddy) moved to a different branch location of work (they worked at the same place before). It was far enough away that they no longer work out together and the occasional threesomes ended. Two nights ago I got a surprised in bed as my GF waxed her private area. It was different, I like it but not an important thing for me. Well this woman she is here for tonight and goes back Sunday. I only found out the next morning she would be here today. She told me two months ago she was actually glad the threesome stuff was over. She was the one who started them though. I was enjoying life without this other woman as a factor even though she is gorgeous hot, sex was great and is really into me. I did not need that aspect anymore. Just my GF and I was good and she express the same. Now I think maybe my GF did the wax job for her and not me. My opinion is my GF is into this woman to a bit more degree then she lets on. This woman is into my GF but seems into me more than my GF. My GF is into me and I am confident of that. I was thinking of not getting involved sexually tonight. Good idea or bad? They will both want me to join them but they will go at it if I don't. They have had sex without me before and I with this woman without my GF too. Both at the gym together now. It is strange to see my GF seduced in a sense by another woman. Seduced more than I.
  • Motorguy
    Veteran Member
    • Mar 2014
    • 3921

    Well it's all how you feel watching your girl friend with another women. If you are OK with and your GF with another women. Then there should not be a problem but if you 2nd guessing it all then you should let your GF know your feeling about the whole thing. From what you writing it sounds you really not into all this as I say you don't join in with it all. But your GF is all gung hole ready for that pleasure of it all. So you may not be able to change her mind about it all period. So good luck on your decision of what you decided to do.
    When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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    • Lovcookie
      Veteran Member
      • May 2010
      • 222

      I decided to stay out of the way and they sensed it. Not much happened. Did even get a visit in the night into our bed. I was good with that. No sex at all that night in any bed. Next day was all good. Maybe it is truly over.

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      • Motorguy
        Veteran Member
        • Mar 2014
        • 3921

        Well you may be right sorry to read that. But to be sure have you discuss this issue with her. So you not just assuming it is all over then. What the worse that can happen yes it is or no it's not.
        When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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        • Lovcookie
          Veteran Member
          • May 2010
          • 222

          oh I was ok with my GF with other woman (usually included me) but it kind of got to the point where I had enough of it and wanted a normal relationship.

          I meant the threesome and relationship with the third party seems to be done. I am still good with my GF.

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