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  • son2beamomma2
    Junior Member
    • Jan 2008
    • 7

    a different turnout

    So I had sex with my man last night, and i let him know that i wanted to change things up. I got on top and i started riding him, and the problem was that when i'm on top, it makes alot of noise, and his family was upstairs. So I really got him off and made him happy, but i also noted that when i was on top i could smell my vagina more, and i hoped that he didnt notice, but i don't think he cared too much. I started biting and sucking on his neck and chest, and then he reached for my butt, and stretched out my buttcheeks with his hands as i road him, at first it felt good but then it started to hurt so i told him to stop doing that, and then he started tickling my butthole with his finger and that felt SO amazing, but when i told him that it did feel amazing he asked if i would do anal and i said no b/c im just not into that. I want to keep satisfying him like this because i don't want him to get bored =]
  • Little
    • Feb 2007
    • 4329

    Sounds like you are well on your way to a 112% wonderful sex life.
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    • metboogie
      Senior Member
      • Dec 2007
      • 182

      You may not want anal now, but you loved the butt play, so you shouldn't flat out say no...maybe continue with the finger, let him lick you there, and see where it goes...just remember, use plenty of lube.

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      • LadyLane
        Veteran Member
        • Sep 2007
        • 308

        I would say do not rule out the coolie love... especially if you liked the bit of play back there that he gave you. You can have insanely long, intense orgasms (in my opinion) with anal stimulation during sex.

        It won't make things boring. You really have to be in the mood for it, and my hubby is SO surprised when I say, how about some anal tonight? He flips out, he gets so excited, because we rarely do it.

        Had some amazingly love back there myself this week... I think I had a ten minute orgasm!

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        • anonymouswhitefemale
          Veteran Member
          • Sep 2007
          • 1343

          There's no point completely denying yourself something that feels good (a bit like the blowjob thing - how's that going by the way?).

          Roll with it, and see where it takes you. Also, it would be a good gesture to make up for the lack of oral he got for ages - both parties should be willing to 'serve' their partner, do a bit of work or something you don't necessarily enjoy for them. Anyway, regarding anal, there's no reason you shouldn't love it.

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          • SinisterUrge
            Veteran Member
            • Feb 2008
            • 370

            Originally posted by metboogie
            You may not want anal now, but you loved the butt play.....
            +1

            Congratulations! You've discovered theres more to anal stimulation than just anal sex. Like oral sex mouth/*** action is great tool for a happy sex life.

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