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  • angelgirl71
    Junior Member
    • Jan 2008
    • 9

    Why does my husband masterbate in his sleep?

    I am 36 yrs old for the last 6 or 7 months I have been awoken by my husband masturbating in this sleep. This happens addles three times a week. I have to get him up to clean up his mess. Does anyone know what I can do to stop this?
  • Fallen1
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2007
    • 1937

    Don't know if you wake up during the act or after ..... but if it's during I'd take advantage of it, move his hand out of the way and take over.

    Every now and then my boyfriend does something similar. Most of the time we sleep snuggled with him facing my back with his arm around me holding me. Often I am woke up with him "humping" me in his sleep. The first time it happened I mentioned it to him and he laughed saying he didn't know he had done it.

    I really don't have any kind of suggestions, maybe some of the others here will have something to suggest.
    There is a method to my madness ........ I just haven't found it yet.

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    • metboogie
      Senior Member
      • Dec 2007
      • 182

      He needs to see a doctor...simple as that.

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      • andigail6
        Junior Member
        • Nov 2007
        • 8

        Originally posted by Fallen1
        Don't know if you wake up during the act or after ..... but if it's during I'd take advantage of it, move his hand out of the way and take over.

        Every now and then my boyfriend does something similar. Most of the time we sleep snuggled with him facing my back with his arm around me holding me. Often I am woke up with him "humping" me in his sleep. The first time it happened I mentioned it to him and he laughed saying he didn't know he had done it.

        I really don't have any kind of suggestions, maybe some of the others here will have something to suggest.

        That happened to me too..I was half awake in bed one time when my b/f was "Humping" me and he was totally asleep. We were both facing each other which made it all the more funny. I woke him up and he just had this dazed look when I told him what he was doing. He just laughed...man that was funny!

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        • anonymouswhitefemale
          Veteran Member
          • Sep 2007
          • 1343

          Apparently I've masturbated in my sleep before..

          Whatever, probably just having a nice dream and have something to vent.

          I don't think it's a big deal, and I wouldn't suggest its something to go to the doctor about LOL.

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          • metboogie
            Senior Member
            • Dec 2007
            • 182

            Humping your partner in their sleep is one thing - but a man actually rubbing one out repeatedly in his sleep is a little cause for concern.

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            • Guest

              both could use help - albeit from different kinds of doctors...

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              • Celeste
                Member
                • Feb 2008
                • 55

                This is no reason to see a doctor in my humble opinion! Little boys, teenage boys, and men all alike have sexual dreams, wet dreams, and simply act on these while still asleep. Hell, I've done it before! Males are simply sexual beings, they have to be, it is just natural. I agree with another comment up there, move his hand and take over! Wake him up and utilize that sexual energy!

                When my boyfriend and I first started dating years ago, we would sometimes wake up in the middle of the night at the same time, no previous humping or anything, and just be so much in love we would make love then and there, then fall back asleep. It was almost errie and magical. We still do it from time to time, and it is natural for men to develope erections while asleep. No worries!

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                • Mourningman
                  Member
                  • Oct 2007
                  • 74

                  He's probably not sleeping.

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                  • angelgirl71
                    Junior Member
                    • Jan 2008
                    • 9

                    No he is a heavy sleeper he works 14 hr days he goes out like a light.

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