[lauralight]

My friend, an older gentleman of abt. 55 said he has testosterone deficiency and that's why he rarely can be intimate wtih a woman. We'll I just started dating a 38 year old, whom seems to have trouble too(but isn't talking about why it's not working normally). I'm wondering if this is pretty young to have that? Or how much this testosterone deficiency happens, my friend said it's rather common?

[C]

The Testosterone level of a man can come into play but this is seldom the case. When a man starts doubting himself sexually it can skyrocket. It is my belief that a sexual woman can bring on just about any man if he has sexual feelings for her. But the man must be in the mood to be receptive and not be confused and doubting himself.

A man's Testosterone level can be brought up by a doctor with medication. But he will only give him medication for this if he finds this necessary through testing. A man will start to experience erectile dysfunction as early as his late 20's. If a woman catches this happening this is when she MUST come into action. These are her helping times with him in turning into his Porn Queen. Lots of oral on him and making him feel great about himself.

I guess with my keeping my husband so sexually young and a "stud" that this is one of the reasons that I feel so young. I guess I am his Testosterone....Please understand I do not brag about what has happened with us, I share what has happened with us......

Editing the above post......What I am referring to above is sexual stimulation between two people in love......Having never had another man penetrate me I can only speak of words that have been written to me by women....This is why so many older women look for the younger men.......And very often find them too.....

[lauralight]

Men, testosterone

I've been with many men, and it's kind of easy to doubt myself if the guy struggles to get a hard on. This guy is referring to stress a lot, as if he's easily affected by stress in this way. I've had so much confusion over this, since I'd wanted to enjoy myself after a year being alone. It seems he always seems to struggle to get going and it ruins 1/2 the sexual experiences to date with me. I suspect he's pretty embarassed and that's why he's further withdrawing?

[C]

I've been with many men, and it's kind of easy to doubt myself if the guy struggles to get a hard on. This guy is referring to stress a lot, as if he's easily affected by stress in this way. I've had so much confusion over this, since I'd wanted to enjoy myself after a year being alone. It seems he always seems to struggle to get going and it ruins 1/2 the sexual experiences to date with me. I suspect he's pretty embarassed and that's why he's further withdrawing?

Getting a hard on is a man's pride. If he has had this problem before it makes it doubly troublesome. Maybe help him by taking the semi erect penis and inserting it inside your vagina. Grind with him. Talk sexual and give him your breasts. Try and build confidence where the confidence is gone. In the meantime settle for his tongue, fingers and his heart. He is the one hurting out of this....

[lauralight]

Been there doing that

Yes, Helping him is what I'm doing. I also had a friend whom once had chronic prostate infections and it was the same as an effect.

[C]

A hot woman like you are is better than the strongest pill on the market...