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I always find it interesting to reverse the genders on some posts. If it was a man whose Gf wouldn't do oral on him, what would be the advice?

My feeling is that each person should do everythign within reason to please their partner, and that it is probably best not to get in a perminant relationship with someone who doesn't do that.

What you say is true but you have NO IDEA of the women that refuse to go down on their husband's. They find it distasteful. If they may have done this before marriage it was done only for a purpose and this is to nail the guy. This is the reason many marriages dissolve and the reason that many men chase on their wife. They crave oral. They need it as much as we do.....Many of them have been taught this by their Mother's and many of them just have this built up emotion in themselves that says that they do not want to suck that thing with the juice coming out of the end of it....Sounds crude but that is where they are....They must learn to grow and accept life and man and dig down deep within themselves and conquer every inhibitiion that they have.....This is called my generation......And my generation talks to their daughter's and how they chose to talk to them makes the difference.....This is part of my thoughts on why a marriage fails....

[jody1971]

someone else's thought

You didn't say how old your man is. When my man was in his 20's he was like the energizer bunny. He could keep going, and going, and going. Now that he's in his late 30's... not so much. Don't get me wrong, it's still fantastic, but he need recovery time. As for not going down on you, that's just awful. My man gives the BEST oral ever! If he decided not to do it anymore, I wouldn't do it for him until he changes his mind. I personally don't like to look like a pre-pubescent girl down below, so I have a "landing strip" that I keep closely cropped. As far as the taste, try whipped cream, chocolate syrup, popsicles, get creative! And for the orgasm issue, some women just can't have vaginal orgasms. There is nothing wrong with clitoral stimulation during sex. Not being able to come vaginally dosen't mean there is something wrong with you, or that he's not doing something right. It just is what it is.
Good luck