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Ello' I am in need of some advice....

Cut a long story short, i have recently come out of a long term relationship..... and i have started dating this gorgeous man, who is quite "large"! Now i am not the biggest of girls down there, small to average, now i am worried as both times which we have had sex, i have bled!! Now, i have never bled before, not even with my long term partner... and he was normal size.

I wouldn't say this man is overly huge, however bigger than i'm used too! Girls, is this normal?

Thank goodness this new guy is so supportive and he was so relaxed about it! So, this didn't stop us.. hee hee

It doesn't hurt, but obviously i am concerned and would like it to stop.... will this go over time?

Any help girls is much appreciated! xxxx

[nikki22]

I've had this same problem, and unfortunately no it will not go away. If it's not working now, chances are it won't fix itself on its own. I suggest picking up some good lube, it will help you out a lot!! After I did that, there was no more issues.. and no more bleeding

Oh, and don't be shy about telling your man why you guys must use it. Letting him know the truth that he is 'large' is only going to stroke his ego

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Hey

Thank you for ur reply honey!

Oh no! Well..... we started using baby oil to make it easier.... however, it not a case of pain at all. It's just like i start my period during sex.... very odd!

Oh he know's he's larger than normal... he loves it when i tell him!

Do they have a name for this? Tried to find it online....

[Celeste]

Check on this in a medical journal or something, but I have read more then once, that if something causes your cervix to open, as a longer-than-usual penis would (to more readliy accept its sperm) then what the blood is, is simply some of the period-like blood mixture that the uterus stores for future conception. When the cervix opens and lowers down to more easily accept sperm during the most aroused time of sex, it convulses some and can release some of that blood. Im sorry lol, I sound like an idiot trying to explain this, but Im not an MD! Seriosuly, look it up and see if you can find anything. Or call a gyno. I think that may be all that is happeneing, because if it was anything else you'd feel some pain, dont you think?

[haillei]

Bleeding

Bleeding should be normal the first time you do it. however, if it occurs all too often, then that is something which you should have a doctor see. The vagina is a flexible one that should be able to adapt easily to big sizes. Even if you had sex before, that is not an assurance that it could take in easily any size that there is.

[metboogie]

HE could be tearing you inside. If he is forcing your period to start prematurely, that's not good - you should let him penetrate so deep. There is a new foam lube that is supposed to be really good, try that. Also, try getting on top and controlling how deep he goes. If it happens again, see your ob/gyn - it's an issue.