[C]

I am not sure how to really phrase what I am trying to say, other than it is my belief women who wear high-heels tend to be better in bed...hows that for getting my thoughts down on paper.

Interesting comment about women.....I haven't wore heels in 20 years.....I am more of a Hillary Clinton woman...........But the buck stops there.....After that we differ.....I don't leave my husband "poor Willy"....I make him "Happy ***".....

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Your comment about women feeling extra sexy after sex brought another question/observsion to my mind.

It has long been my contention that women who wear high-heels are far more likely to be not only sexualy active, but fully willing to fulfill their mans needs and desires and know they are good at it!

I have witnessed this little observaion of mine for the past 20+ years.
I have always been a fan of high-heels, since around the 3rd grade!
There are many times I have taken note of what a woman wears on her feet and once gotten to know that woman better, come to find in one way or another..she is a sexy beast.

I am not sure how to really phrase what I am trying to say, other than it is my belief women who wear high-heels tend to be better in bed...hows that for getting my thoughts down on paper.

But that comment of mine was "true" we do feel that way and we do glow and it shows. I may very well therefore put a pair of high heels on that day, but trust me it's not an every day thing.

When i was younger, it was a "every day" thing, women love shoes, they love high heels but as we get older, well it is just not common sense unless we want our back to kill us everyday.

Of course men like women wearing high heels, and we walk differently and look differently. It's an "assessory" like our jewelery. Always where them when i go out.

No i don't think women who wear high heels are sexier in themselves.

It's every little girls fantasy to get older and put on a pair of high heels like mummy does.

We just like high heels.... They look good with what we are wearing and i do agree on one thing, when we put them on, i think we may feel sexier but then, we are wearing a stunning evening gown, or pencil skirt, sometimes shorts and a top, well again, it depends also on the age, couldn't do that now without the men thinking i was, well...... with the shorts thing.....

"It's in her eyes" if you want to know how to find out whether she is or isn't but then, your married, so you don't need to

[MissGoddess]

Hmm.. My thoughts;
The girl-on-girl porn thing doesn't necessarily make you gay, [although this has been said and established several times already..]. It just turns you on because you see them enjoying themselves, and since you're a woman as well, you can imagine exactly what they're feeling. And yes, youmight get this from "straight" porn as well, but these are two [or more] women you are looking at. Gives you more to think about. At lease 2 women that are enjoying themselves, so you go from feeling what one of them's feeling, then you see the other one and realize that would be great as well, so you have plenty of "options" to choose from. More than twice the pleasure, if I'm making myself clear.

As for the heels.. Man women LOVE shoes. Heels or no heels. It's just that heels are a very sexy and attractive type of shoe. When a woman wears heels, it just adds a little more to her already-good looks. It also helps a lot if she is already confident enough about herself as it is. With the heels, she will feel even more confident and she will know that she looks even better. -thinking about buying some heels now- Haha Nah I'm kidding. [I have plenty] Anyway, I'm not saying that women who don't wear heels aren't sexy. As long as they know they look good, that's all that matters. Self-confidence is what attracts most people.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I have said it in other posts that I like to watch lesbian porn too. I have learned alot. My husband has learned alot about hitting the best spots and I also get turned on watching girl on girl porn. I am in no way wanting to have sex with a girl. I just like watching them. I don't think your gay. I think it's pretty normal to be curious how it's done. My husband thinks it funny how that I like to watch porn. He's not complaining though. It's changed our lives for the better.

I don't know if i would like to "watch it", i certainly know there is a curiousity about it so i probably would.

But with the "right man", i'm a horror, i would accept two women in his bed, me being one, and me being the priority her being just there, and then to watch him at the end out of curiousity of what it looks like being with me, and that she had to watch the whole thing and miss out until the end and it would purely then be sex.

I also would not care if she touched him in any fashion but not me.

As i said, 1) i'm a horror and 2), it's a fantasy, perhaps best left in my head than reality. To find that man that would accept that once of thing and then not stray and i'm not a jealous woman, but it would be risky.

Good fantasy for me though.

[Moosh32082]

Ok so I have a question related to watching porn. Occasionaly I watch porn with my man, and from what I've read in other threads this is usual and acceptable. Now sometimes when he isn't around and I'm feeling frisky I'll watch porn by myself and he knows I do this and has no problem with it at all. My concern is most of the time it ends up being lesbian porn that I like to watch. Does this make me bi or gay?

I love to watch lez porn it turns me on more than anything but I have been with my man for 5 years and love **** but also would love to be with a women to so I guess that makes me bi. But I think its totally normal

[DCarr]

Nope

I won't say that you are gay until you have actually done it. Watchin lesbian porn and gettin arroused by it may simply mean that it's something different for you and you enjoy seeing.

I get stimulated more by lesbian porn than a usual man to woman. I know wat a man to woman feels like and it's something that we would be use to. But fantacising about lesbian porn may put our minds to wonder so it stimulates us more.

that's just my opinion.