[CHANDLERS WISH]

We are all different, we live different lives. For some, the husband works long hours. For others, they are in long distant relationships. And, some, they work normal shifts and see each other every night at the same time, same place, same old. The hardest thing is keeping it all ALIVE!!!!!!! If your husband said " did i tell you, your one sexy lady" Or:- Let me...................you what ever that sentence says Or:- I married a gorgeous woman, what are you doing tonight... Each and every text message that you would send would send her into a mode, sensual, sexy, horny. Can you tell me that that would not improve your life. The key is to know what mood she is in, or what problem you need to work with. What does she feel, where are you at... Do you need to be sexy, sensual or horny. For her, she will responde. "Gee so you sound horny" Or:- " I am sexy want to find out, Or just feel and say nothing but she will think. Text messaging, is a sexual act. It is filled with lust and emotion not sex. As a woman, i just sent one:- Want to wake me up with a thought? Any thougth, even if i am asleep, i will wake up tomorrow with it... What that would do to the man, and to me as a woman when ever i receive it..... That's not the issue or key, that is the sexual seduction of a woman to a man or a man to a woman, .... Food for thought, and as such sharing....

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Of course, i was sharing, but didn't pose the question.....there is no edit button here..... sorry... SO:- Has anyone considered this as a sexual technique to assist in keeping things alive. He's away, or at work, your feeling stressed, kids are running around crazy and then you recieve something that puts a smile on your face..... And, not asking for what you've said, rather, if so has it added that spice in your life. If you have tried it.... Of course as lame as you think it might be, would you see it as another avenue to explore and try? Even if it was, " when i first met you, i knew you were the one, can you recall that first date, i'm thinking of it now", Would that maybe make her think back? Are our minds not controlled to remembering all GOOD and not BAD? Perhaps but a simple text of , and your still just as sexy as you were back then only better..... Words are powerful, extremely and we forget, Less we forget....................

[ChelseaRenee]

Of course, i was sharing, but didn't pose the question.....there is no edit button here..... sorry... SO:- Has anyone considered this as a sexual technique to assist in keeping things alive. He's away, or at work, your feeling stressed, kids are running around crazy and then you recieve something that puts a smile on your face..... And, not asking for what you've said, rather, if so has it added that spice in your life. If you have tried it.... Of course as lame as you think it might be, would you see it as another avenue to explore and try? Even if it was, " when i first met you, i knew you were the one, can you recall that first date, i'm thinking of it now", Would that maybe make her think back? Are our minds not controlled to remembering all GOOD and not BAD? Perhaps but a simple text of , and your still just as sexy as you were back then only better..... Words are powerful, extremely and we forget, Less we forget....................

Oh I do it all the time! I just love the idea of sending a hot little text message when he least expects it (at work or school) and making him squirm. We both do it- sometimes it'll be little scenarios we think up like "If you were here with me I'd sneak off with you into the store room and..." or we'll recall fun times that we've already had together.

It's so easy to become stressed and totally forget about the great little things in life, but when I'm running around crazy at work and dealing with psychotic customers, going back into the stock room to check my phone and finding a dirty text message from my boy really spices up my day- It makes me feel great that he was thinking about me and fantasizing about me, and those texts get thinkin' about him, too!

[nikki22]

Nothing will catch him more off guard then when he asks you 'What are you doing' .. expecting a response along the lines of 'watching tv..' 'shopping..' 'being bored out of my mind...' etc..
And you reply with 'pleasuring myself to your picture'

expect a knock on the door

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Nothing will catch him more off guard then when he asks you 'What are you doing' .. expecting a response along the lines of 'watching tv..' 'shopping..' 'being bored out of my mind...' etc..
And you reply with 'pleasuring myself to your picture'

expect a knock on the door

How true is that!!!! I can just see his reaction now I learn't when your the one answering with a sexy reply like that, it shows a confident woman which rumor has it men love.....

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Oh I do it all the time! I just love the idea of sending a hot little text message when he least expects it (at work or school) and making him squirm. We both do it- sometimes it'll be little scenarios we think up like "If you were here with me I'd sneak off with you into the store room and..." or we'll recall fun times that we've already had together.

It's so easy to become stressed and totally forget about the great little things in life, but when I'm running around crazy at work and dealing with psychotic customers, going back into the stock room to check my phone and finding a dirty text message from my boy really spices up my day- It makes me feel great that he was thinking about me and fantasizing about me, and those texts get thinkin' about him, too!

Gee, hate that word, stress.... Funny how that sort of action creates reaction and the stress just simply goes away doesn't it.. I can imagine you then with your customers after, your trying to concentrate on what they are purchasing or wanting to but your minds wandering... visa versa for him.... Ah, expect the un-expected ... NOT....

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Sure a couple of little sexy text messages can be nice, but overall ****** text message conversations just irritate me. Girls love to text, but I don't really think guys do.

One or maybe two texts should make up a conversation, not 15. Text conversations just don't stop, and you're sat there tapping away 5 seconds a word to write some **** that might as well wait till later...

You know, phones can transmit voice as well, and hearing something sexy in person is far better than a few words and maybe a semicolon bracket wink

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Sure a couple of little sexy text messages can be nice, but overall ****** text message conversations just irritate me. Girls love to text, but I don't really think guys do.

One or maybe two texts should make up a conversation, not 15. Text conversations just don't stop, and you're sat there tapping away 5 seconds a word to write some **** that might as well wait till later...

You know, phones can transmit voice as well, and hearing something sexy in person is far better than a few words and maybe a semicolon bracket wink

I do agree with you anonymouswhitefemale. I like the simple one liner that when i read, causes a reaction and i answer same, one line, two words and it stops right there. It does not constitute my relationship and may only happen once a week, or fortnight as i to prefer to "hear the voice" and as sex goes, well hard to tap away at the same time

Interesting though, game playing can be fun irrespective and that one liner actually went to tap tap on one occasion. As a result of quick "paragraphs" for 7 days, whilst he was away, that he couldn't answer, his payback was text so i couldn't hear him or speak to him in lenghts etc and it was to be honest one of the best sensations of sexual desire i have ever experienced. The fact that i couldn't speak to him, ate at me Never know then do you!!!!

Got me back a beauty.........

[macybelle]

My husband and I don't text each other but we do send each other x-rated emails. It's fun to do and we really enjoy reading the emails.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

My husband and I don't text each other but we do send each other x-rated emails. It's fun to do and we really enjoy reading the emails.

Now that takes on a different form!! Do that to.. But of course, remembering that i have no choice with my communication as he is not here.

I get a kick out of those, imagining him at the other end reading them and more so, his replies.

Like here, i can write a story, lengthy so that's been good to to "write a fantasy" i once did a "chapter 1" and waited to send "chapter 2".. that was funny as he had to wait a day for the ending.....

I guess, it's all communication in a sexy form, but certainly they work wonders....