[Motorguy]

Well oral suppose to be of a foreplay time. But its turn into more then just that. Mostly into getting the man or women ready for sex.But it's change over the years with see it mostly in porn videos that it's its something more women will do instead of sex. No risk of pregnancy by doing oral.

[Lovcookie]

I've never had an orgasm from oral, never ejaculated, even though my gf has made a study of oral techniques; what she does is VERY pleasurable, and she's always trying something new and different - and often better!
I think my problem could be psychological: subconciously, I might feel that it's demeaning to women. When I was younger, it was considered to be something "dirty" and/or something only a prostitute would do to you - yeah, I know, that was a long time ago, but I was young a very long time ago! :-)

Me either, I have never cum with oral as well. Even with differnent new women. I have the good fortunate to experience some threesomes (2 women with my GF and myself) even with these women on my own. Most have had good or excellent technique. They know how to get my GF off but orally did not succeed with me. The issue is with me. Not sure if in my mind. I do consider myself a man with good control and can last a good while but I can always cum with vaginal sex. It just feels much better to me.

[Lovcookie]

I thought I would share this. Interesting after reading this post and thinking about it I gave the challenge to my GF. I decided to change my mindset, the location and my thoughts during her BJ. Her technique was good and I offered more feed back on where and how to supplement what she was doing. My thoughts focused on her enjoyment and on her body parts that turn me on the most. Result last night I had my first ever orgasm form a BJ I doubt it will work every time going forward but proves it can be done even if you never succeeded before.
Maybe I should give some credit to the shower lol

[Lexhill]

That's great Lovcookie. I hope you and your GF enjoys this newly experienced development.