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  • beethovengenius
    Member
    • Jul 2014
    • 90

    Do women overestimate penis size of partners?

    I have long suspected that women tend to overestimate their partners penis size.This study, which was conducted at UCLA's Sexual Psychophysiology Laboratory, demonstrated that women prefer girth than length, but also interestingly indicates that women overestimate penis size.

    "But there was no difference in length between the penises they preferred for one-time partners versus those they preferred for long-term partners: In either case, women tended to choose penises that were about 6.5 inches long.
    The vagina has many pressure-sensitive nerve endings that detect sensations of stretching, and these sensors may be finely tuned to detect variations in penis girth, the researchers said. A penis with larger girth may also bring the clitoris to the vagina during sex, which has been suggested to help with achieving orgasm.
    On the other hand, longer penis length may lead to cervical pain, said study researcher Shannon Leung, an undergraduate in biology at the University of California, Los Angeles, who presented the findings last month at the meeting of the Association for Psychological Science in San Francisco.
    Previous studies on whether penis size matters have had mixed results: A 2012 study of more than 300 women found that 60 percent said penis size made no difference to them, but that those who frequently experienced vaginal orgasms were more likely to prefer longer penises. And a study published last year found that whether women prefer larger penises depends on the proportions of the man's body, with larger penises being more important to them in bigger men.
    However, many past studies have relied on images, or used terms such as "small," "medium" and "large" when gauging women's penis preferences, and these terms may have different meanings to different people, Leung said. The new study, on the other hand, is the first to use 3D printed models, which meant women could physically handle them, Leung said.
    In a second part of the new study, women were given one of the penis models and allowed to examine it for 30 seconds. They were then asked to pick that same model from a bin of 33 models, either immediately or after completing a 10-minute survey (to allow time to pass).
    After completing the 10-minute survey, women tended to overestimate the size of the penis they had previously examined, the study found.
    This finding may be reassuring to men who are self-conscious about their size, the researchers said.
    "For men who are considering surgery to increase their phallus sizes, maybe they do not have to after all, if women tend to overestimate" the size of a penis they've seen, Leung said"

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  • Something_Awesome
    Veteran Member
    • Apr 2014
    • 1219

    Lol, interesting read I guess. I am not 6.5 inches long but don't have too much trouble making the GF g-spot orgasm (at which point she completely crushes the heck out of it).
    "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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    • raindancer
      Veteran Member
      • Sep 2014
      • 243

      I'm an outlier.

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      • a_dub
        Veteran Member
        • Dec 2011
        • 514

        Originally posted by Something_Awesome
        Lol, interesting read I guess. I am not 6.5 inches long but don't have too much trouble making the GF g-spot orgasm (at which point she completely crushes the heck out of it).

        So you can feel her vagina spasm around your penis when she orgasms?

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        • Something_Awesome
          Veteran Member
          • Apr 2014
          • 1219

          Yeah... You have no idea... Her insides squeeze really hard. It does not feel good, but that's not to say it's not gratifying!
          "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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          • Little
            • Feb 2007
            • 4329

            Women are likely not the only ones overestimating - all it really takes is one boastful early-life partner who says he is X inches and, not having a ruler to measure him with will just take that as fact - that must be what a X inch penis looks like! And the fallacy persists with future partners.

            I believe that the scientific consensus is that in studies where men self-report their penis size that the "average" is much larger than in studies where they are measured in some way. It's simple to assume that people are bad at measurement and gain some societal benefit from overreporting their size and the sizes of previous and current partners.
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            • beethovengenius
              Member
              • Jul 2014
              • 90

              Little, I agree with you that most men when measuring their penises either intentionally or unintentionally add an inch or more to their size.

              However the above study suggests that women do tend to overestimate former partners penis size. Women on average do tend to have less spatial reasoning than men and I think this has a bearing on size perception.

              On the whole self measuring thing most men don't measure properly anyway, when I was younger I used to measure incorrectly and by doing so I was adding an inch or so.

              So it's possible that some men actually believe they are a certain size when they are not. But on the flip side there are of course some men who will lie outrightly to their partners by adding an inch or more to their actual size.

              I've read various posts from women on this forum and other forums stating their former partners penis sizes. Some claim they have slept with guys with huge sizes that were at least 11 inches. An 11 inch penis is the equivalent of meeting a 7 foot guy, very unlikely.

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              • Something_Awesome
                Veteran Member
                • Apr 2014
                • 1219

                I have never measured my penis and I never knew there was a wrong way to do it. Isn't there only one way?
                "Are you serious? You're bleeping THAT girl?" - jen1447

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                • jns
                  Assistant Admin
                  • Mar 2010
                  • 8398

                  And what way is that?
                  I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                  ...
                  Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                  From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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                  • Motorguy
                    Veteran Member
                    • Mar 2014
                    • 3921

                    I believe it's a macho thing with some guys, that bigger is better and all women want longer so they will over exaggerate there real size. From what I read is they will take girth over length any day. But if your female parnter is not complaining of size just learn to use what you have to give her that pleasure she is seeking as well.
                    When out driving always turn left. Then, should you become lost, you can find your way home by reversing the procedure and always turning right.

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