[mzhk]

I know I said I'd quit going online. But I found myself listening to my girlfriend J and resigned up online. On there this very familiar face msg'd me. After some talking it turned out we went to the same high school. Long story short one thing lead to another? We ended up back to his place for a movie yesterday. Somewhere in the middle of the movie , I moved from one side of his sofa on to sitting next to him on the recycliner part . He ended up putting his arm around me I was ok , next thing I knew he was playing with me like a doll. Shocking part was I didn't resist. Next thing I knew I was so turned on it was unreal. He said he was hard so I went for it and told him to grab a condom. The thing is? During this frisky time? RIGHT when he hit the right spot? dang 4 and half inch kept deflating, felt like he was going all over the place. He's not a virgin that I'm very sure of. After everything? He wanted to see how my schedule works? He wants to see me again. My question on here today is ; ladies? did I just get myself into a friends with benefit? Also, do you girls wake up sore like you ran a mile? I've never been so sore in my life. My ovarys feels like its been moved. My body juice has not stop running. NOT normal I never had this before. It's my 4th time having sex, last one was last Sept. I'm assuming muscle was tight all the friction caused swelling internally.

[Motorguy]

Well Mzhk what do you want to do. Does this guy seem like dating material or just FWB guy every once in the while. When the feeling come up with you. To me it look like the guy wants more with you. So are you even attracted to the guy or was it just like a one time thing for you. Then you move on with someone you like to have a serous relationship with. Well it seem then guy was drilling for oil with you with hammering hard into you making you sore after the sex with him. Well you now have something to think about so good luck with all that.

[raindancer]

You only need to ask yourself if that's something you want, whatever it is. Other people's opinions shouldn't matter. It is your body, your mind.

And whatever you do, play safe.

[mzhk]

Thank you everyone! My brain has not been thinking the past 30 days. It's a sinking Titanic to begin with. My 6's senses were on the money. There was no connection to begin with

[Ashlee T.]

Just read this along with your other post. A friendly piece of advise: Stop allowing yourself to blame others for your choices. It seems like you say "Everyone kept telling me to" this or that a lot. By thinking that and saying that, you subconsciously remove some of your own responsibility and accountability when in fact you, and you alone are responsible for the decisions you make in life.

Sounds like an "interesting" encounter. Been there, done that with the 4 inches that kept deflating. Not an experience I want to relive. LOL. Aside from that, I think it's quite common to be sore after sex. Your body is doing things it's not use to doing. Once you get in a regular routine of sexual activity, the soreness seems to subside.

[mzhk]

haha was a little confused before but ok now beautiful disaster. I have Von willebrand's diease. I have learnt I need to limit all activitys.