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  • Romy
    Veteran Member
    • Jan 2014
    • 339

    Men who orgasm then want to keep going.

    I'm sure this isn't a new topic so I apologise for asking again.

    I always thought after a man came that was pretty much it - he was done. How common is it for a man to stay hard and want to continue having sex and even orgasm again? For the men who do this, does the feeling stay the same or is it more about the power of the mind and wanting to stay hard and keep going? Basically I'm asking does it feel as good as it did prior to orgasming the first time if you stay hard and keep going. Do you do it got your benefit or your partners?
  • Lexhill
    Senior Member
    • Sep 2014
    • 124

    Mostly it will go soft or semi soft. I do however often want to continue having sex and light play will get it up again. Sometimes it can take 2 minutes other times 10 minutes. But if your in a good sex act, I would say it can last for a lot longer than that. For a little while after orgasming it will be sensitive for a little while, so considerations to that should be taken. When it's up for the second time I usually last for a lot longer. I don't know why but i feel a little less sensitive during my second act, until it's close to ending. Then it's full sensitivity again, sometimes it even feels better. I've gone for a third time once, and it felt kinda like the second time, just with a little more stamina then the second.

    I can often feel like girls think it's done so they don't bother anymore, that's to bad because I often want more. In my experience oral play will get it up faster and work around the sensitivity issues better.

    So I say keep going after orgasming the first time.

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    • rcoreyus
      Veteran Member
      • Sep 2007
      • 4369

      I think there is a lot of variation. Most men are too sensitive and need to stop, but there seem to be some exceptions. There is a lot of variation among women as well. Most women can continue after one "O" for another, but some also get too sensitive and need to stop. Some like my wife never want more than one O in a session.

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      • muffin70
        Veteran Member
        • Aug 2013
        • 384

        I used to be able to do this with my ex GF..... we'd have foreplay and she'd mastubate me to orgasm, then she'd use the vibrator while I sucked her nipples and once she had orgasmed we'd have sex and I'd ejaculate again.....
        it's only happened once with my wife.... a couple of years ago.... we were doing doggy style and I was very turned on and ejaculated quickly over her back, then re-inserted inside her and continued.... she wanted me to stop to clean up the sperm off her back, but I kept on going faster and orgasmed again inside her.

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        • Romy
          Veteran Member
          • Jan 2014
          • 339

          Originally posted by Lexhill
          Mostly it will go soft or semi soft. I do however often want to continue having sex and light play will get it up again. Sometimes it can take 2 minutes other times 10 minutes. But if your in a good sex act, I would say it can last for a lot longer than that. For a little while after orgasming it will be sensitive for a little while, so considerations to that should be taken. When it's up for the second time I usually last for a lot longer. I don't know why but i feel a little less sensitive during my second act, until it's close to ending. Then it's full sensitivity again, sometimes it even feels better. I've gone for a third time once, and it felt kinda like the second time, just with a little more stamina then the second.

          I can often feel like girls think it's done so they don't bother anymore, that's to bad because I often want more. In my experience oral play will get it up faster and work around the sensitivity issues better.

          So I say keep going after orgasming the first time.
          Thank you for explaining it to me. I was definitely of the belief that once a man had ejaculated that was it. I can't believe after nearly thirty years of having sex all I was ever aware of was that some women go back for seconds I never thought it was possible for a man. I would love to know how many men (approximately) orgasm twice during one session of sex.

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          • jns
            Assistant Admin
            • Mar 2010
            • 8398

            I think that many if not most men could go back for a second helping if the circumstances were right. Some time is usually needed between the orgasms. Keep teasing but stay away from the most sensitive parts of the penis (the frenulum of prepuce of penis and the glans penis) for a while. Slow things down then pick up the pace later.
            I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
            ...
            Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

            From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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            • Lexhill
              Senior Member
              • Sep 2014
              • 124

              Romy, In my knowledge women have the physical ability of getting so called multiple orgams which is kinda like a series of connected orgasms. Men can't have this, as far as I know it's physically impossible. Sadly that knowledge is put out there in a way that men can't be brought back for a second serving, and that is false.

              It's kinda like food. The more hungry you are, the quicker you will eat your first plate. Often you will savor your second helping more and it will last longer. Dessert is the cuddling afterwards. (I'm a main dish man myself)

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              • rcoreyus
                Veteran Member
                • Sep 2007
                • 4369

                Good evening
                Its possible for me after a several minute break. Immediately afterwards, like most me I'm too sensitive. (in fact one form of female dominant play is to continue to stimulate a man after he O's.)

                I almost never get the chance though. My wife is pretty much one-and-done, and looses interest.

                Originally posted by Romy

                Thank you for explaining it to me. I was definitely of the belief that once a man had ejaculated that was it. I can't believe after nearly thirty years of having sex all I was ever aware of was that some women go back for seconds I never thought it was possible for a man. I would love to know how many men (approximately) orgasm twice during one session of sex.

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                • Little_Man_in_the_Boat
                  Veteran Member
                  • Dec 2008
                  • 227

                  I just keep going usually as long as shes still wet. No need to stop if your fit and your back will take it all good.

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