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The clit is a very sensitive organ most men keep thinking the need to keep rubbing it or licking it until its uncomfortable. Its the wrong way to achieve orgasm from my own experience.
If you read my other posts it explains how I achieved it. Just remember its not easy and you have to be patient and slow and gentle.Comment
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I know now that I'm more comfortable in relationships with women and minimal actual sex (if I'm emotionally attached I sometimes am willing to do it, but I don't get much out of it), but I have had previous relationships with men and women, so I've had some experience...
In short: it really can be done, the multiple-orgasm thing, but make sure you don't have important plans for any time in the next few hours afterwards! My own personal record for number of orgasms - physical stimulation, don't ask me how my asexuality works as this is not strictly relevant to my biology - in one "session" ... was forty-six. Yes, really.
I happened to go out with my ex and a mutual friend to a pub within an hour of us getting out of bed - and they actually had to half-carry me home between them within the hour, despite my not drinking alcohol, because my knees simply gave way and I couldn't stay on my feet! I was about 18 years old at the time - and they say that most people assigned female at birth don't even start having multiple orgasms until they're 35+ - so I think that probably says something. Not sure what, though. But it can be done.Comment
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My g/f's just warming up with her first, which is usually her best. She usually good for six during one sexual experience. She's had as many as a dozen. She's usually good for more of my tongue work after her clit is no longer hyper-sensitive from a preceding orgasm. If we watch a movie and then get back at it, she's good for a few more.Comment
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I have had girlfriends who can orgasm repeatedly, almost continuously; several years ago, I celebrated one woman's 26th birthday by assuring that she had (at least) 26 orgasms. I don't think it took more than an hour, maybe an hour and a half at most. The apartment downstairs was banging on their ceiling with a broomhandle...
My current gf has learned to work through that feeling of excessive sensitivity in her clitoris, and can now experience one orgasm after another, with no more than a minute or so between them. Especially so with oral; she will finally beg me to stop, or I have learned to stop when she gets to the point of not being able to catch her breath. Once you have reached what they call the "plateau"phase of arousal, an orgasm is never very far away, and the key is to stay in that phase.
One important thing, I think, is to pay attention to your feelings, and not to worry what your partner might think - this really involves complete trust.
For me, the feeling of intimacy is so overwhelming I cannot describe it; I just love being with her.
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JNS was right about women being different.
When women become comfortable with a man, I'd guess they can orgasm easier and more often.
First time sex is generally more difficult. A man doesn't know what a woman likes and how she likes it.
Since she reached puberty, my g/f has always had a very pronounced libido. She could have sex all night every night. Very early in our relationship, she told me what she liked and how she liked it. She loves oral sex, and she likes to be banged like a cheap screen door in a category 5 hurricane. My guess is she could cum all night from oral sex. But after a few, she wants me inside of her.Comment
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From what Ive read abd experienced there is only one orgasm or the continuation of the first one as the orgasm starts from the excitement phase to the plateau phase to threshold of orgasm then resolution.
If stimulus is reapplied then resolution moves back into orgasm or thats the theory behind it.
From experience orgasm is hard to achieve and the humdiger i was fortunate enough to be on the end of was between 9pm till 6am (I know, I know ...) to achieve. After that amount of time you've been through the orgasm and your laying there drenched with steam rising off our bodies.
Glazed eyes and that wonderful closeness and love for each other and not for getting the euphoria.
So yeah the one big poweful orgasm is enough.
For sure.
:-)Comment
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