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  • Kerrio
    Junior Member
    • Aug 2017
    • 2

    Painful sex

    Hi everyone. I'm a 24 year old female who has only ever had one sexual partner. I have no STDs and I have never been pregnant. And sex is very painful. Here's a bit of a background.
    I have always had trouble with my periods. In April i went to my primary who sent me to get an ultra sound. I went to see an OBGYN for the first time due I to irregular bleeding. The ultra sound came back that I had a growth on my uterus. I had my first pap and she did a biopsy, and removed the growth without telling me.
    I went home and thought I was going to die. I was in so much pain I couldn't see straight. I had huge shooting pain in my back even down to my legs. I didn't know what to do. I went back to the OB and I saw a male doctor who did another pap two days after the first one and told me I had an infection. He put me on antibiotics.
    The next day I was feeling no better at all. I went back again. Another pap and the third doctor said I was fine, I wasn't infected, the second doctor at all, and the pap from the first visit had come back clean and a polyp had been removed. I had another ultra sound that day.
    So in about 2 weeks I had two ultra sounds and three paps. This was in April and sex has never felt the same. It's extremely painful and I'm sore the entire next day.
    I went back to the doctor Wednesday who did NOT do an exam thank god. She did tell me that it sounds like I have an inflammatory infection and that I have nerve damage from all the procedures. She was shocked that it had all been done so many times and in such a short amount of time. She said I was never given time to heal. But she also mentioned again that I was mistreated and I had not had an infection.
    Does any of this seem right? I don't know what to do next. I keep getting turned around and I just want my sex life and regular life back on track. I feel like I've almost stumbled into malpractice. I need advice.
  • Texasred
    Veteran Member
    • Oct 2009
    • 1216

    I think you need to see yet another obgyn who is not associated with the others, as well as a lawyer.
    There is no way any sort of surgical procedure should have been done without telling you about it, and it sounds like at least one of your "doctors" was incompetent.

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    • Kerrio
      Junior Member
      • Aug 2017
      • 2

      Thank you texasred. This is what I'm leaning towards as well. I left the first procedure scared to death. I thought I had cancer! They never called me, only when I went in for the third time did they mention in passing that everything came back clear. When I asked about the growth, the dr. Passively said oh that was removed. I'm not a big complainer and I know mistakes happen but this just seems like a world of crazy things happening and I'm still physically reeling from the situation.

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      • Little_Man_in_the_Boat
        Veteran Member
        • Dec 2008
        • 227

        Pfft.

        Outrageous that a Dr. would perform surgery with consulation thats totally wrong.

        Needs his bottom kicked.

        Maybe sacked or struck off the medical register.

        ​if sex is painful stop doing it because it'll just make your condition worse.

        If hes well endowed then you need to learn about foreplay and how to make love to a women.

        Id use lube in your situation.

        Still that's now substitute for good technique.

        Read my other posts regarding orgasm.

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