[a_dub]

I still think that the penis girth matters more than its length when it comes to giving pleasure.

Well I'm definitely thicker than a woman's finger. Or a man's for that matter, lol.

[WaveRider]

My g/f did a one-nighter with a dude while she was in college. When she felt how small he was in her hand, she knew he wasn't going to work for her. She mercy effed him. He tried to do her again in the morning. She lied her way out of it.

Now that I've read this thread, I have a different perspective. While my g/f was a young college coed, I think that she had probably treated him poorly. When she was in an argument with her ex-husband, she told him that he was terrible in bed. I told her that that was a very hurtful thing to tell a man. She had told me many times that he was horrible in bed, and he refused to learn how to have great sex. But they were divorced when she told him he was terrible in bed. There's no sense in rubbing salt in open wounds.

BTW, my g/f likes girth. She wants to feel me inside of her.

I know another woman who in the heat of an argument told one of her former boyfriends that he was too small for her. I told her that she should never demean any man in such a manner. And she was no prize herself.

[Lithium]

BTW, my g/f likes girth. She wants to feel me inside of her.

I heard in a documentary that girls would be more satisfied with bigger dildos/vibrators (when it comes to sex toys because the documentary was about that) however they are shy to get them, they don't believe it fits, they are afraid it hurts or will turn they're vaginas too big (which its not true) and a lot of reasons that keep them from trying.
Actually, for me, the larger the girth more pleasure for me. When it feels like its way too much, it completely fills me up, the pressure... well... it can give me orgasms really fast.
If its only huge in terms of length it will be bumping my cervix all the time and bumping my cervix while it doesn't hurt it is not pleasurable enough... I believe that's why people into fisting really love the experience > being filled inside.

[Lithium]

BTW, my g/f likes girth. She wants to feel me inside of her.

I heard in a documentary that girls would be more satisfied with bigger dildos/vibrators (when it comes to sex toys because the documentary was about that) however they are shy to get them, they don't believe it fits, they are afraid it hurts or will turn they're vaginas too big (which its not true) and a lot of reasons that keep them from trying.
Actually, for me, the larger the girth more pleasure for me. When it feels like its way too much, it completely fills me up, the pressure... well... it can give me orgasms really fast.
If its only huge in terms of length it will be bumping my cervix all the time and bumping my cervix while it doesn't hurt it is not pleasurable enough... I believe that's why people into fisting really love the experience > being filled inside.

[WaveRider]

Hi Lithium,


When it comes to sex, my g/f ain't shy. According to her, she's never been shy about sex. For her birthday last year, she wanted a big, fat, black vibrator. I bought her one that cost about $150. I couldn't find it in black. It has an attached clit massager. She loves it.

I've been told that I have the girth and length to keep women happy. My g/f wants her vajayjay stretched and banged like a cheap screen door in a category 5 hurricane while I'm dirty talkin' her. She loves her *** slapped while I'm banging her dog style. She also loves her fat vibrator stuffed inside of her vajayjay while I'm working her with it.

[Romy]

I've never been with anyone I would consider small but I certainly noticed when I met a man who was huge and had huge balls to match. I think he loved my reaction. I have to say that I absolutely loved having sex with him (he certainly knew what he was doing which made it all the more so good). It might make some people think I'm loose but on more than one occasion I've been told how tight I am. I put it down to c/section births, plenty of kegals and a jade egg.

[deep-evie]

To be honest and frank. I don't think much of cocks under 5.5" long, 5.5-7" is meh for me, im not too fussed on girth but a guy needs to stick it deep (hence the same my loves), most girls would be ok with a 4-5" sausage as they would any sized pole, my vaginal canal is deeper than average when unaroused im about 5" deep when aroused i can lightly slide something 7" deep, and hard thrust 9" inside me. So my preference is to have the feeling of a man poking the end or at least filling my nearly, something i personally enjoy as do most girl, most girls however are 4" when unaroused and 5" deep on average during action stretching to 6-7. So to feel what a normal girl feels i need that bit extra that inch or 2 more, hope thats helped and also given you a view to the "other side" per se of us women who like things a bit bigger, kegals have made me very tight though.

The way i see it, size does matter, but there are ways around it for most girls, for willy size hogs like me size is important. On your question, my smallest is 5.3" measured 4" around, he was thin, i liked its girth, i really disliked the length, after the first session i used to give BJs to avoid sex for a few weeks until we agreed the relationship wasn't working for us, due to other reasons though this would have deal broke eventually. Not what you wanted to hear, but at least im being honest x

[WaveRider]

Enough women have told me size matters to think otherwise. That doesn't mean that a woman can't have an enduring relationship with a small dude.

deep-evie is right from what I've been told. Women want to feel a man inside of her. But they have liked girth more that length as long as there was length.

I do have empathy for small guys. I hope women do not give them complexes and make them feel insecure with demeaning remarks about being packaged challenged.

I know that women can become extremely insecure by comments about their bodies or sexual abilities. All couples will argue, but there are more than a few areas that must never be broached during arguments. Apologizing might make her or him feel better, but some things said in heated arguments are never forgotten.

My g/f will never forget derogatory comments her ex-husband said to her during sex. One of the many unforgivable things he said to her was she was gross for her wanting him to cum on her face and breasts. Telling a woman she's gross in any circumstance is never wise. And there was absolutely nothing gross about her wanting a facial or cum on her breasts. He said some other unforgivable things to her. His problem was he was sexually inexperienced. She was extremely sexually experienced. Their sexual incompatibility was a cause of their divorce.

[Texasred]

...I think that because for me, its more pleasurable the more thicker it gets...

My gf has told me this several times. And it sometimes seems that when we have sex more frequently, my penis becomes thicker. (We are not able to be together as often as we'd like)

[suej]

The smallest penis I have encountered was roughly the size of my pointer finger. It was fully erect. We did not have intercourse, for one reason or another, but I was disappointed by what I saw, which probably played a role in not having sex. The biggest one I have experienced was just before my husband. It was probably twice as wide as my husband. As in, two of his penises side by side. It was also longer. It fit me perfect, and for the first time ever I could have vaginal orgasms. I just climbed on board and in a couple minutes came, without even trying. It was transcendent!

My husband is average sized, and I prefer large. But he is a great package overall, and sex isn't everything. So we experiment with big toys and him using his hand inside me. It works for us. But oh what I would give to have my terrific husband with that big tool that came before him! I don't want to make him jealous, so I don't bring it up.