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  • Is penis to small to please girl?

    Hi guys i'm looking for feedback from people with small penis. Like how was your sex life? Could you satisfies ur female partner? Pls give feedback. Bcs this starting to be a major problem for me, i have already rejected piap piap TWICE from 2 different girl bcs i'm still close friends with them, embarrass of it and also scared cannot please them then word will spread. So i'm looking now for feedback from people with penis size less then 5" or people who know someone with a small member like maybe you have a gf who former partner was small? What she had to say?
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    Last edited by atskitty2; 12-17-2017, 03:21 PM.

  • There are many women that are satisfied with their partner's penis, when it may be statistically on the smaller side. I have no idea what piap piap is. Is that oral sex?

    I dated a man with a penis on the smaller side of what I'd ever experienced. We didn't have intercourse, and the size of his penis had less to do with it, than his other approaches to sex and sexual activity. If you're connecting with someone, and the attraction is there, you will find ways to please each other, I believe. Learn to communicate and tune into your partner. If you have some trust issues with a potential partner, regarding discretion, it's probably best to not engage in intimate activities with them anyway.

    Many women also exclusively want larger penises. If that's the case, and you have chemistry otherwise, you can always experiment with strap ons and other toys.

    Please, avoid allowing this to be detrimental to your confidence. Lacking confidence is a bigger turnoff than a smaller-sized penis. Your penis is just fine, and you can learn to be a great lover whether you have a huge one or small one.

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    • If one thing inhibits your sexual encounters, it will be your self confidence NOT your penis size. I can tell you that for certain. If you're seeking meaningless encounters, you will find yourself being pickier and the women being pickier of you because in those types of encounters, you both are only seeking one thing. If you are seeking sex in meaningful relationships, you will find the reaction to be different. If you are a good lover, confident, sensual, loving, gentle but know when to be a little rough, if you show her that you worship every inch of her body, you are likely to have that favor returned to you.

      Less than 5" can mean a lot of things. It could mean 4 inches, which isn't uncommon. Or it could mean 1-2 inches, which would put you into the micro-penis category. If you are in the micro penis category, it can inhibit the ability to have typical intercourse and is something you'd have to work to overcome by focusing more on other avenues of pleasure.

      "Be what you're looking for."

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      • Penis size has nothing to do with female pleasure. If you believe this, you are either incorrectly informed or think sex is all about the penis.

        How do you please a woman? Ask her.
        How do you make a woman orgasm? For most women it is with your tongue, hands or toys. It is very rarely with a penis.
        How do you make a woman orgasm with your penis? By using it correctly, ie moving around to rub against the clit.

        Your size has nothing to do with female pleasure. If you are worried about pleasuring your partner, read/study on how to please a woman. If you have your own hangups about your penis size, then you need to overcome them.
        Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin)

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        • DreamP346,

          I have had more than one woman, including my current g/f, tell me that when a woman says that size doesn't matter, she's lying.

          However, when a woman is in love with a man, she'll overcome his size issues.

          I'll go with Beautiful Disaster here: confidence can compensate.

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          • James,

            If you have women friends with whom you can candidly talk sex, I'd ask them.

            The absolute best sex advice I've received has been from women.

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            • Hey WaveRider - all the responders here except you and James ARE women. haha!
              "Be what you're looking for."

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              • Have to agree with wave rider. Size does matter. just not as much as people think for most women. If you are not confident.. the size will matter then, it becomes more of an issue. Its not black and white. its not Size always matters or size never matters, a lot of girls on here forget that girls like me DO exist, who find size very important.

                So really it tends to be not only on your confidence, but on the girl you are with too. Il be honest some hate penises smaller than 5"...i don't, but i don't really get pleasure from them either. i have a friend who loves 4-6" penises, some endure them and love 6-8", but work around your size. MOST girls i found to be very accepting of 4-5.5" if you are confident but ideally like 6-7".

                Its about the girl, the girls past, how she views her past sex experiences vs her exes sizes and skills, i know so many who have a bad experience with a big penis cause they tend to be lazy. but i ride them so i don't get that bad experience i get the best out of it regardless.

                humans are complex.

                Most girls could orgasm harder on a bigger penis, maybe faster too. but yours will get most girls there too, so long as you have the stamina for it and confidence to pound her silly. Some girls you just wont be able to please with it, but take that as it comes and do NOT let it worry you, even though there are more girls like that that most ladies on here like to admit, most are kind and will still enjoy the sex a bit differently, also, knowing how to use your tongue goes a LONG way. IMPORTANT: Turn her on, the more she wants you, the easier it will be trust me.

                The biggest issue here is people defend their opinions, but they are just that, opinions. There is no true right and wrong. Know for some size matters, know for others size does not, know for most they want you to be able to last a few mins before finishing, Know there is always better out there, and yes most might be bigger, some may even be the same size, do not let that bother you, girls concentrate on the guy in front of them most the time, even me, if someone pulled down and i saw a 4.5" erect penis, yeah il be a bit dissapointed not going to lie, this isn't the place for fibs. but i would concentrate on having fun and making it good for us both, even if its me giving him a amazing blowjob which im skilled at in my humble opinion. both are happy. But i NEVER think during a session "oh i can so do with X here right now with him 10 incher" no doesn't happen, i would puke if i did that. and if a girl does. or cheats on your, or splits up with you due to size. thats bad character.

                Im a size queen, but im a nice size queen haha.
                Last edited by deep-evie; 12-16-2017, 02:28 AM.

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                • It's all about your skill and your enthusiasm. The bigger the better only applies if you don't know what you're doing but you happen to be hung like a tree stump.

                  Many women can't orgasm from intercourse alone. That's where your hands, your mouth, and above all your mind comes into play.

                  Treat her right and she probably won't care whether you're 4" or 14".

                  I say probably because there are a few women who'll bail the instant they don't consider you the right size. Then again, there are some men who'll bail on a woman the instant they don't consider their breasts the right size either.

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                  • I'm sure women's desires varies. I relate to my g/f a lot because she's my most current relationship, we've had a lot of sex, and we've always been able to talk openly about sex. She has told me that after she orgasms, she wants girth inside of her, a penis that she can feel. And she wants to be banged like a screen door in a hurricane. She does not like tender, loving sex.

                    She has had small. She doesn't like small. She'd rather have girth than length. This is especially true when she's giving head. She does not like long shoved down her throat.

                    She doesn't do well with shy dudes and dudes who didn't talk (especially dirty) talk during sex. Every dude with whom she has had sex (there were a couple exceptions) were shy or reticent during sex, as though they did something they shouldn't have. According to her, I'm the perfect size for her, and I ain't shy. She wants to be dominated during sex. She is submissive. She loves that I'll take charge and tell her what to do. And she LOVES dirty talk.

                    I can think of two other women who have told me that small didn't work for them. One got into an argument with her then b/f. During heat of their argument, she told him that he had a small package. I told her that that was a difficult comment to forget. In fact, he'd never forget that she said it. Likewise, no man should ever demean a woman about her sexual ability or size of her assets. My g/f, in an argument with his ex, told him that he was lousy in bed. I told her that that was a very harsh comment. According to her, he was close to the worse sex or the worst sex she has ever had. He was at fault for refusing to allow her to teach him how to have incredible sex. But she should have never thrown it in his face.

                    I've recently bought my g/f another vibrator. The sales girl got me dialed in to a perfect one. I saw a few HUGE black dildos on display. I asked her if women liked them huge. She told me that they sell them. My g/f wanted a big, fat, black dildo. She has a thing for black men. I couldn't find one that I thought would work. So I bought her a black vibrator that she can easily hide inside of her purse. It's about 7" long but shy on girth that she likes.

                    I sure other women like different shapes and sizes.

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