[miffed23]

Except for that quote above.... that part i would agree with the method, and in holding back your orgasms, seems to me this spells longer sex, much longer......and i um, kind of um, like that idea..... very much...

Yep, im with CW on this...its the main thing that drew me to tantra....that and delaying orgams to please my man - it would make me feel very powerful....leaving a mind blowing orgasm inprinted in his mind.

[C]

Yes, I understand the logistics of tantra. Just saying that it makes my mind wander to these images. Nothing wrong with being spiritual or not, just that I find that part of it boring to/for me. Not to say that the teachings are not useful tools and I do agree with some of its philosophy. Mostly the need for connecting with ourselves then our partners in all ways, not just physical.

I didn't read about the logistics...I sensed from the little that I read what she was saying to me...I don't want to be somebody that I am not...I was told this because a woman found this from what I had written.......Maybe this afternoon I will add more to my Tantra blog....After my husband and I have been sexual my mind is so awake....As of this minute it is bursting with knowledge....But I must go there with guided wording....May I say this to all women who may be reading this....The orgasm that a woman can receive, this is after hot foreplay, at the end of the bed with her legs wound around his neck and his capability of pleasuring her breasts as he is penetrating her, is mind boggling...This way a man enjoys the pleasures just watching her orgasm and thrill to this slow and sexual mating....Here a man can leave her for a few seconds to orally pleasure her and insert himself again before he ejaculates and take her to heaven....To me this is what Tantra is....The slowness of loving.....The heat in the foreplay....The knowing of your body and the womsn leaving this behind and going to heaven...It is in these places of lust that I find the true woman who I am inside me......I don't know maybe I won't add more...Maybe they all know already....TC, C

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Yep, im with CW on this...its the main thing that drew me to tantra....that and delaying orgams to please my man - it would make me feel very powerful....leaving a mind blowing orgasm inprinted in his mind.

There is something about the "eyes" and the "soul" hey!!!...

Personally that "power" when noted during sex is more powerful to me than what he is doing to me so to speak, if he can look me in the eyes and reach my soul.....

Secondly, don't be silly, i was meaning him having to wait to orgasm not me? lol....

CW