[CHANDLERS WISH]

"sensuality" & "sexuality" definitely have different meanings.

I was trying to emphasize on feeding the senses which would in turn effect some sexual response.

Would you agree those would help; or did I (like men do) miss it completely.

In an ideal world one would hope that we were all capable and acknowledged the difference in it's totality. Fact is, a lot of people only know "sex".. Not the intensity of being in a state of sensuality and mastering this, consequently acknowledging everything on an entirely different level.

Having said that i am speaking general, i know that there are a lot of people here that do think sensually...

But:-

ie) you are about to sleep with someone you want to sleep with, you think great, sex, you visualise all of this:- just purely the sex.

Or

you are about to sleep with someone you want to sleep with, you think sensual and you can feel, almost taste, and touch it in your visualisation, it takes on a completely different "arousement" and excitement to the situation.

So yes, if feeding the senses, allowing sensuality into your thought pattern, it certainly can then feed sexual response as you have a much better visualisation of it all....

All i was saying was "I'm not agreeing with you" Because, so far, i've agreed with you on every occasions and well, that just won't do now will it.....

CW

[mosach]

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.Thanks CW.