[CHANDLERS WISH]

Hi Maggieanne;

I keep thinking of that text message and how he responded to that...

It's there, it's in him...

You have to remember, your also a Virgin, so perhaps he also feels something there, even though your sooooo ready.......

So i was thinking, because Ladylane made some valid points there, obviously she has read your previous posts/threads and remembers....

I am still tending to think and be patient, how long for is another issue, but remembering his reaction to the text message?

So, maybe love as i said, he ain't ever going to make the move, and you just suggesting still means it's his work to do, his move.

Dressing up, his move.

Shower, his move.

Your suggesting but he has to act.

I think your smitten to death. He's talked about living together (with whomever) before marriage.

He's the knight in shining armor, he's never been touched. He's alll llll ll yours.

I'm still tending to think, 5 months is not long, another 1 or 2 isn't going to kill you to find out.

So, stop asking, suggesting, go with the flow let him let his guard down a bit, and see if you make the move, not him if he responds.

You remember, i didn't say jump him, that's not the way to go, i said, have your body parts touching, see his reaction, take is slow but be the aggressor.

If, this fails.

Then, Ladylane has a point... It's not that he has a fear of being the "starter" in all of this but a "fear full stop" and there somehow this needs to be eliminated through discussions with each other, or outside advice.

I don't think you'd do it with "someone" but you are smitten with the romance and end result with this one... Marriage, living together, he turns you on "that you were wet as" i recall...

So it's worth perseverance sometimes, if this is how you feel plus as i said, both crying, is an ask for help..

I'm hoping that the help is you being the "starter" aggressor in the end, but from there, your call....

Hope that makes sense.



CW